Ragin_Asian
Senior Don Juan
A girl in my class I recently met lives in the same town as I am, which prompt a "we should catch up back home and do some stuff"from her. I was a bit surprised that she approached me and got my number to which she replied to a few days later and even apologised for being late. She wanted to go do some kickboxing training with me and other fitness stuff cos she wanted to lean up and get her figure back. She wanted to go do school stuff as well. Our class is a sport related so we have seen each other in "flight". She is pretty much nearly an elite athlete while I am naturally gifted but with no focus, so we are pretty much opposite.
We have been out to kickboxing training but i dont think she was impressed by the place we went (she only wants the best thing to do with fitness and sport related stuff) but then again if she was interested in me then it wouldnt have mattered. My mistake was that I wasn't my fun self as I was a wee bit nervous. I made a mistake of seeing her as the prize chicken as she has accomplishments and social proof all over her, not to mention a killer smile lol. I tried to run some CnF on her but she played it well although my deliver sounded canned.
After that things seem to go downhill. All the things we have planned she has pretty much cancelled. I know she is busy with work and puts sports and fitness about all else to which I can't compete. So my solution was to find something to do which I have the power over, such as scenic hangouts and other things I am good at. I think she has already nexted me but I do not know for sure, I want to be persistent and don't just wanna give up but i aint gonna obsess over her.
How do i present another opportunity to which she could see my fun self to which she could put all her attention on me and her having fun without having to count lap times and other bullsh*t. there must be another way or opportunity but I am just simply missing it....I need help or advice. thanks
Heres my present plan of attack lol
CnF on body images. She has a sense of humour and want to take her on a ride. I wanna tease her and bust her balls. thats been my strong point on girls but i havent had the right setting to do it and im itching for that window of opportunity. I've talked to her on the fone a few times but always remembered to cut first ( 15-20mins and then made plans afters to do sumtin) i only call her2 times a week but someties without calling her for a whole week. my caller id is private but Im starting to think she knows its me calling.
We have been out to kickboxing training but i dont think she was impressed by the place we went (she only wants the best thing to do with fitness and sport related stuff) but then again if she was interested in me then it wouldnt have mattered. My mistake was that I wasn't my fun self as I was a wee bit nervous. I made a mistake of seeing her as the prize chicken as she has accomplishments and social proof all over her, not to mention a killer smile lol. I tried to run some CnF on her but she played it well although my deliver sounded canned.
After that things seem to go downhill. All the things we have planned she has pretty much cancelled. I know she is busy with work and puts sports and fitness about all else to which I can't compete. So my solution was to find something to do which I have the power over, such as scenic hangouts and other things I am good at. I think she has already nexted me but I do not know for sure, I want to be persistent and don't just wanna give up but i aint gonna obsess over her.
How do i present another opportunity to which she could see my fun self to which she could put all her attention on me and her having fun without having to count lap times and other bullsh*t. there must be another way or opportunity but I am just simply missing it....I need help or advice. thanks
Heres my present plan of attack lol
CnF on body images. She has a sense of humour and want to take her on a ride. I wanna tease her and bust her balls. thats been my strong point on girls but i havent had the right setting to do it and im itching for that window of opportunity. I've talked to her on the fone a few times but always remembered to cut first ( 15-20mins and then made plans afters to do sumtin) i only call her2 times a week but someties without calling her for a whole week. my caller id is private but Im starting to think she knows its me calling.
