The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
I browse sosuave off and on, and find one thing is at fault with how many guys go about getting women.
This is a 2 sided coin, where doing cold approaches will build a thicker skin (one that many guys on here need badly), but on the otherside, you are walking up to a complete stranger who you are basing an attraction to based purely on looks and hence opening yourself up to a potentially awkward situation.
Here is the line that everyone on here should remember:
A Don Juan's success rate is based exclusively on the woman's personality
That's all there is to it.
All the tips/tricks/lines/seduction moves that we use to turn her on will only work if she wants it to.
Example:
I know a girl who in my book is about as close to a 10 in looks as I can imagine. She is flawless. We are friends and i see her all the time. I have never ever tried to make a move on her, because i realized early on that we aren't compatible. Our personalities clash, on that level. Could i get her? I'm not sure. She swoons at me, when she comes to one of my shows, but when we talk, the conversation is dull. It's very bland, because she and i aren't compatible.. at all.
There is another one who is about the same in looks that I recently met, and just the opposite is happening. Sparks are flying. We both feel it. We can sit around and just talk for hours, because we both have very simillar interests and beliefs.
And with her, not once did i ever need to apply some sort of seduction voodoo mind trick, like so many on here seem to believe is neccessary.
Making dozens of cold approaches is like throwing spaghetti at a wall and hoping some of it will stick. I'd much rather do my thing and when i meet women, I determine right away wether or not she is the personality type that i can be with. If she is, then no games are necessary. It just works. This keeps my success rate very high.
I have a few questions that i tend to drop into conversations that are my little personality tests. Based on my own beliefs, I gauge her, by her responses. And I'm not talking religious crap or politics or whatever. These are very simple, yet playfull questions. Usually stuff regarding childhood memories and family based stuff.
Someone will indefinitely find a flaw in my philosphy. I haven't covered it all, but I hope it opens someone's eyes as to why, when they approach somone it doesn't work out right, then they come on here crying that they can't get women.
It probably isn't entirely your fault, if the attempt fails.
The Bad Ass Canadian
This is a 2 sided coin, where doing cold approaches will build a thicker skin (one that many guys on here need badly), but on the otherside, you are walking up to a complete stranger who you are basing an attraction to based purely on looks and hence opening yourself up to a potentially awkward situation.
Here is the line that everyone on here should remember:
A Don Juan's success rate is based exclusively on the woman's personality
That's all there is to it.
All the tips/tricks/lines/seduction moves that we use to turn her on will only work if she wants it to.
Example:
I know a girl who in my book is about as close to a 10 in looks as I can imagine. She is flawless. We are friends and i see her all the time. I have never ever tried to make a move on her, because i realized early on that we aren't compatible. Our personalities clash, on that level. Could i get her? I'm not sure. She swoons at me, when she comes to one of my shows, but when we talk, the conversation is dull. It's very bland, because she and i aren't compatible.. at all.
There is another one who is about the same in looks that I recently met, and just the opposite is happening. Sparks are flying. We both feel it. We can sit around and just talk for hours, because we both have very simillar interests and beliefs.
And with her, not once did i ever need to apply some sort of seduction voodoo mind trick, like so many on here seem to believe is neccessary.
Making dozens of cold approaches is like throwing spaghetti at a wall and hoping some of it will stick. I'd much rather do my thing and when i meet women, I determine right away wether or not she is the personality type that i can be with. If she is, then no games are necessary. It just works. This keeps my success rate very high.
I have a few questions that i tend to drop into conversations that are my little personality tests. Based on my own beliefs, I gauge her, by her responses. And I'm not talking religious crap or politics or whatever. These are very simple, yet playfull questions. Usually stuff regarding childhood memories and family based stuff.
Someone will indefinitely find a flaw in my philosphy. I haven't covered it all, but I hope it opens someone's eyes as to why, when they approach somone it doesn't work out right, then they come on here crying that they can't get women.
It probably isn't entirely your fault, if the attempt fails.
The Bad Ass Canadian
