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6 Reasons Why Women Are More Attracted To The 'Beta' Male Personality

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One of the harshest truths, life throws your way is the fact that you can't live like an Alpha male all your life. Sometimes you're a born an Alpha, sometimes you acquire traits along the way and sometimes, you just don't have any Alpha traits, and that's nothing to beat yourself over with.

We may have normalised the image of an Alpha male as desirable and important, but truth be told, Alpha males are what's wrong with the world today!


Here's why the Beta male is the best personality to be right about now!


Women, nowadays, seek men who're more rational with their emotions. While the 'bad boy' image may work for some men, women actually love to settle in with someone who is more upfront with his feelings, reliable and emotionally present, and that is something the Alpha male can't really connect with.

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Thoughts?
 

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Women, nowadays, seek men who're more rational with their emotions. While the 'bad boy' image may work for some men, women actually love to settle in with someone who is more upfront with his feelings, reliable and emotionally present, and that is something the Alpha male can't really connect with.
You're not much of a Bad Boy, are you?

The type of men that you call alpha males don't care about the traits of those 'beta males' because they're not interested in settling in with a woman who needs them to share feelings. Women like those 'alpha males' expressly because they are not 'reliable and emotionally present'. That makes them exciting.

As for settling down: whereas these 'beta males' need to woo a woman to get her to marry them, most of these 'alpha males' had to reject women proposing marriage to them. I cannot count the women who 'offered me' to move in with them, to become their baby daddy, to lock me down. And I'm certainly not the only man that happened to.

Of course women like these 'beta males' you mention. Someone has to pay the bills.
 
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You're not much of a Bad Boy, are you?

The type of men that you call alpha males don't care about the traits of those 'beta males' because they're not interested in settling in with a woman who needs them to share feelings. Women like those 'alpha males' expressly because they are not 'reliable and emotionally present'. That makes them exciting.
A link to the article posted in the OP.

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I think you're misunderstanding the Alpha Beta dynamic.

Alpha doesn't mean "good" and Beta doesn't mean "bad".

Both are good, but for different things.

Alphas are good for their genetics and dopamine hits.
Betas are good for their comfort and stability.

It's not like the more alpha you are, the less beta you are, at least not entirely. Some aspects in that dynamic compete with one another, but many alpha and beta traits can coexist.
 

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One of the harshest truths, life throws your way is the fact that you can't live like an Alpha male all your life. Sometimes you're a born an Alpha, sometimes you acquire traits along the way and sometimes, you just don't have any Alpha traits, and that's nothing to beat yourself over with.

We may have normalised the image of an Alpha male as desirable and important, but truth be told, Alpha males are what's wrong with the world today!


Here's why the Beta male is the best personality to be right about now!


Women, nowadays, seek men who're more rational with their emotions. While the 'bad boy' image may work for some men, women actually love to settle in with someone who is more upfront with his feelings, reliable and emotionally present, and that is something the Alpha male can't really connect with.

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Thoughts?
Since when did we stop taking cognizance of what women do, in favor of taking the s-it they say literally?
 

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There's less of a market for the beta male than there once was. Women are not seeking the beta male anymore. Women's actions show they prefer alpha or sigma males.
 

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I googled "How to be the Alpha that women love", this was one of the links that popped up.

Tell Google, not me.
Resist all those urges to enter the term "Eco-Sexual" into Google Video. You could have the misfortune of becoming infatuated with what you discovero_O
 

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Thing is when a woman says they want beta male traits in a man what they mean is they want the Alpha they LIKE to have those traits

I watch this show called married at first sight

Every single woman in every single series that gets paired with a man who is subservient to her complains she Is not sexually attracted to him

The brutal reality is a woman will happily go and have wild passionate sex with a guy who displays alpha traits she will let him screw her raw, in her a$$ and let him nut inside her without a second thought

She will then go back to her beta relationship like nothing happened and talk about how much of a great guy he is , the beta guy will be lucky to get sex on birthdays and at christmas

Look at how many women happily do porn and adult work ....... it ain't fvcking Disney out there

Its literally hardcoded in her brain through her ancestors to get aroused by and submiss to dominant male personality traits

Its like us looking at that woman with the nice t1ts and a$$ in a bikini by the pool , its hardcoded within us too want to strip her naked and impregnate her

All external factors are pretty much arbitrary
 

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It's hard to agree. Alpha gets, beta loses. Women will chase the alpha when they are sexually valuable, and find a beta to settle down with when their type is devalued.
 

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Sounds like the author is projecting her own personal belief's.

"The new category of men, who have taken over societal norms and its various designs are the new breed of Beta men. Trust us, they are here to stay. It's a brand new generation, making up brand new rules; and men are emerging as a more tolerant gender, radicalising their emotions and sensitivities to fine tune them with the opposite gender. "

Something tells me she road the cahk carousel for too long chasing Amir in the streets of New Dehli. Now she wants a provider, she has bills to pay you know. Her career in media writing stupid articles about dating isn't paying like she thought it would.

Whats universally attractive to women hasn't changed. They will always seek their best options depending on their current needs and value.
 

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Car insurance rate drops after 25
There was not a time between ages 25-34 when I noticed a drop in my auto insurance rates.

It's also worth pointing out that there's a rate difference any time that a new or a newer car is purchased to replace an older model. In those cases, auto insurance rates tend to go up.

Post-pandemic orgy
I didn't notice it. I got some more pussie when the worst of the pandemic ended but there was no moment where I felt an orgy. Things slowly returned to pre-pandemic conditions as indoor masking slowly went away. There really wasn't an immediate moment where there was a big party but it was a slow and gradual thing as I saw it. It's possible other people had different experiences than I had.

Short King Spring
That's a joke.
 

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There's less of a market for the beta male than there once was. Women are not seeking the beta male anymore. Women's actions show they prefer alpha or sigma males.
Women dont need beta males anymore, that’s why they are not seeking them. It’s in their DNA not be attracted to them; just like it’s in a man’s DNA to not be attracted to fat women, older women, ugly women or single mothers.

Before a woman needed beta males to go out and get resources from society and provide for her, in exchange the man would get sex and offspring from the woman.

Now, since a woman can get the resources herself, she doesn’t need the Beta man anymore. She just needs (or wants) the Alpha Man for the offspring and sexual pleasure.
 

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One of the harshest truths, life throws your way is the fact that you can't live like an Alpha male all your life. Sometimes you're a born an Alpha, sometimes you acquire traits along the way and sometimes, you just don't have any Alpha traits, and that's nothing to beat yourself over with.

We may have normalised the image of an Alpha male as desirable and important, but truth be told, Alpha males are what's wrong with the world today!


Here's why the Beta male is the best personality to be right about now!


Women, nowadays, seek men who're more rational with their emotions. While the 'bad boy' image may work for some men, women actually love to settle in with someone who is more upfront with his feelings, reliable and emotionally present, and that is something the Alpha male can't really connect with.

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Get this **** out my face lmao. An alpha male is not one who is a bad boy. A real alpha is one who’s in control of his life and actions and has a good solid direction in life. That’s it
 

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Get this **** out my face lmao. An alpha male is not one who is a bad boy. A real alpha is one who’s in control of his life and actions and has a good solid direction in life. That’s it
Therein lies a flaw in all this "Alpha male" crap far more serious than whether or not it's reductive... More often than not, each guy's notion of "Alpha" is a projection of his fantasy self. The gang banger from the ghettos of St Louis imagines a drill rapper or an NFL player who acts like a thug when he hears the word "Alpha", while the boy from the suburbs of Tampa imagines a Fortune 500 CEO or a high-powered corporate lawyer when he hears that same word
 
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