30 Things to live by

[Lozboss]

30 things I got from 'No More Mr Nice Guy" - Robert Glover.

All DJs should read the book, Free PDF:

https://7chan.org/lit/src/Robert_Glover_-_No_More_Mr_Nice_Guy.pdf

No everyone will need every aspect but the messages of making yourself the priority is key to being the person you want to be and DESERVE to be.

1 If it frightens you, do it.
2 Don't settle. Every time you settle, you get exactly what you settled for.
3 Put yourself first.
4 No matter what happens, you will handle it.
5 Whatever you do, do it 100%.
6 If you do what you have always done, you will get what you have always got.
7 You are the only person on this planet responsible for your needs, wants, and happiness.
8 Ask for what you want.
9 If what you are doing isn't working, try something different.
10 Be clear and direct.
11 Learn to say "no."
12 Don't make excuses.
13 If you are an adult, you are old enough to make your own rules.
14 Let people help you.
15 Be honest with yourself.
16 Do not let anyone treat you badly. No one. Ever.
17 Remove yourself from a bad situation instead of waiting for the situation to change.
18 Don't tolerate the intolerable — ever.
19 Stop blaming. Victims never succeed.
20 Live with integrity. Decide what feels right to you, then do it.
21 Accept the consequences of your actions.
22 Be good to yourself.
23 Think "abundance."
24 Face difficult situations and conflict head on.
25 Don't do anything in secret.
26 Do it now.
27 Be willing to let go of what you have so you can get what you want.
28 Have fun. If you are not having fun, something is wrong.
29 Give yourself room to fail. There are no mistakes, only learning experiences.
30 Control is an illusion. Let go; let life happen.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

GOLD

 

[Alexandar]

give yourself room to fail.

control is an illusion.

those two are key, and they go super deep.

 

[zekko]

Thanks for the list, Lozboss.
But just to be difficult:

1 If it frightens you, do it.
Run your car into a semi full speed?

Don't settle. Every time you settle, you get exactly what you settled for.
Could be a good thing, could be bad.

3 Put yourself first.
Selfish b@stards.

4 No matter what happens, you will handle it.
Unless you don't.

5 Whatever you do, do it 100%.
If you're going to fvck up, fvck up all the way.

6 If you do what you have always done, you will get what you have always got.
Although once in a while, by pure random chance, something else will happen.

7 You are the only person on this planet responsible for your needs, wants, and happiness.
But the government wants that job.

8 Ask for what you want.
I thought if we wanted a date, we were supposed to TELL her to show up, not ask.

9 If what you are doing isn't working, try something different.
Isn't this just like #6?

10 Be clear and direct.
Unless you're trying to be mysterious.

11 Learn to say "no."
No.

12 Don't make excuses.
I thought up something clever here but my dog ate it.

13 If you are an adult, you are old enough to make your own rules.
The police will love that one.

14 Let people help you.
I thought only I was responsible for my needs.

15 Be honest with yourself.
I thought DJs tried to be evasive whenever answering questions.

16 Do not let anyone treat you badly. No one. Ever.
"I had a girl, I love her so madly, I treat her so well, she treats me so badly"

17 Remove yourself from a bad situation instead of waiting for the situation to change.
If your kid messes his diaper, leave and never come back.

18 Don't tolerate the intolerable — ever.
Is that a real thing?

19 Stop blaming. Victims never succeed.
But I am a super alpha, how can it be my fault?

20 Live with integrity. Decide what feels right to you, then do it.
I thought women went by feels.

21 Accept the consequences of your actions.
Unless they're bad.

22 Be good to yourself.
Somebody has to.

23 Think "abundance."
Yeah, keep thinking that.

24 Face difficult situations and conflict head on.
Like a brown bear?

25 Don't do anything in secret.
Masturbate publicly.

26 Do it now.
Hear me now and believe me later.

27 Be willing to let go of what you have so you can get what you want.
You can only hold so much.

28 Have fun. If you are not having fun, something is wrong.
Sometimes work isn't fun, but it's necessary.

29 Give yourself room to fail. There are no mistakes, only learning experiences.
"We don't make mistakes, only happy accidents".

30 Control is an illusion. Let go; let life happen.
Doesn't this contradict #4?