26 years old, I'm a very intelligent, great looking guy, dress impeccably, love working out and have a great body, most girls who see me are attracted to me physically (I know), I'm very picky, made over $700k net with my own business in my early 20s, just got accepted to a prestigious med school. Anyway, I'm smart, good looking and ambitious. I know I'm a catch.
Problem is... I'm introverted. And this makes all the difference in the world. Because, while I may be smarter, more creative, better looking, more physically fit and richer than most guys my age, I just can't seem to get this girl problem fixed. I've spent most of my early 20s building this business that made me a good fortune, but this hasn't helped, because the skills that made this business succeed are largely intelligent analytical skills. That can make you rich, but it hasn't helped me (yet) with girls.
I went out tonight... to a dance at a college. And as usual, I couldn't stand being there any longer than 15-20 minutes and just left. I went home tonight again disappointed... asking myself why I didn't stay longer. While I want more than anything in the world to be in a good relationship with a great girl, I just can't seem to get myself to take the steps necessary to get there. It is killing me inside. My strengths are also my greatest weaknesses.
I need help. Part of the problem is I'm afraid if I get to know somebody too much, they will realize I haven't spent most of my life socializing. They'll figure out my secret that I'm "not one of them." So I normally cut off interactions short to avoid this. I don't have many good stories to tell or have that many friends I speak with on a regular basis.
So I guess the question is, how do I force myself to go out? And what am I supposed to talk about when I do? I don't have much common ground with anybody my age. I need to fix this because things aren't looking favorable anymore.
Problem is... I'm introverted. And this makes all the difference in the world. Because, while I may be smarter, more creative, better looking, more physically fit and richer than most guys my age, I just can't seem to get this girl problem fixed. I've spent most of my early 20s building this business that made me a good fortune, but this hasn't helped, because the skills that made this business succeed are largely intelligent analytical skills. That can make you rich, but it hasn't helped me (yet) with girls.
I went out tonight... to a dance at a college. And as usual, I couldn't stand being there any longer than 15-20 minutes and just left. I went home tonight again disappointed... asking myself why I didn't stay longer. While I want more than anything in the world to be in a good relationship with a great girl, I just can't seem to get myself to take the steps necessary to get there. It is killing me inside. My strengths are also my greatest weaknesses.
I need help. Part of the problem is I'm afraid if I get to know somebody too much, they will realize I haven't spent most of my life socializing. They'll figure out my secret that I'm "not one of them." So I normally cut off interactions short to avoid this. I don't have many good stories to tell or have that many friends I speak with on a regular basis.
So I guess the question is, how do I force myself to go out? And what am I supposed to talk about when I do? I don't have much common ground with anybody my age. I need to fix this because things aren't looking favorable anymore.