3 types of girls: Yes, No and Maybe girls. Sort accordingly. You ideally want to only be dealing with Yes Girls. Maybe and No Girls put you in the losing position where you have to "win her over" - this is not sexy for her. Contrary to the mainstream myth, Women don't want to be chased. Chasing a woman only elevates her Ego and you're indulging her narcissism, not her tingles.
A woman always wants to feel like she has to win the guy over. If you're not that guy, then Next her.