here's the situation - i want to get with a HB9 who's in a LTR. my problem is, I want her for a potential LTR, not just a ONS. This is where I need your guys' advice.
story - theres a HB9 in my one of the classes that I'm taking. We are in the same social group with a few other people and it's come up that she's in a long distance (3 hr drive) LTR when she talks to other girls in the group. as hot as she is, I decided not to go for it since it's not really worth it (if i can steal her away, who's to say someone else can't steal her from me?)
so we are just friends in our study group, and we hang out a lot. one weekend our entire group of friends go to Atlantic City and at a bar, she goes hard kino on me. now i've known her long enough to know she's not the flirty type, and has singled me out. she's grabbing my hand, grinding me on the dance floor and rubbing her body on me. we spent the entire time at the bar separated from our friends and just by ourselves. we were both really drunk and I was going to k-close until one of our friends found us and ****blocked by coming over and stopping us. at that point HB9 and my face were inches from each other and had our arms around each other. after that all of us head back to the single hotel room where we were staying in. i go to sleep thinking the night is over (can't game with other friends 2 ft away). the next day she teases me that I fell asleep while she was trying to talk to me in the room. I respond "i'm sorry, maybe next time you should do a better job of keeping me up".
the next weekend she tells me I should go hang out with her and friends back home (where her BF is) and I didn't kno how to respond so I played it safe by saying, "sorry I'd love to, but can't make it this weekend).
I've been texting her to hangout on the weekends, and only once has she responded, and it was when I invited her over to watch tv with just me. She says she got in a big fight with her BF, and I said, don't worry, he's prob overreacting. After that, she starts ignoring my texts, even though I'm trying to organize a group get-together, and nothing one-on-one.
meanwhile, I've started dating other girls and that instantly got her attention. instead of ignoring my texts, she starts texting me and asking me to study with her, hang out etc. this is where I'm stuck now.
If this girl wasn't in my social circle and I just wanted a hookup, I woulda been more aggressive and been done with it, one way or the other. But she and I really have a lot in common, and if anything I would want to try a LTR with her, or just be friends. I would rather keep the group of friends we have, then lose it over a ONS.
so, what do I do? is she a branchswinger or just missing the attention i was giving her? I think this girl is decently interested, but I have never gamed on a taken girl b4.
story - theres a HB9 in my one of the classes that I'm taking. We are in the same social group with a few other people and it's come up that she's in a long distance (3 hr drive) LTR when she talks to other girls in the group. as hot as she is, I decided not to go for it since it's not really worth it (if i can steal her away, who's to say someone else can't steal her from me?)
so we are just friends in our study group, and we hang out a lot. one weekend our entire group of friends go to Atlantic City and at a bar, she goes hard kino on me. now i've known her long enough to know she's not the flirty type, and has singled me out. she's grabbing my hand, grinding me on the dance floor and rubbing her body on me. we spent the entire time at the bar separated from our friends and just by ourselves. we were both really drunk and I was going to k-close until one of our friends found us and ****blocked by coming over and stopping us. at that point HB9 and my face were inches from each other and had our arms around each other. after that all of us head back to the single hotel room where we were staying in. i go to sleep thinking the night is over (can't game with other friends 2 ft away). the next day she teases me that I fell asleep while she was trying to talk to me in the room. I respond "i'm sorry, maybe next time you should do a better job of keeping me up".
the next weekend she tells me I should go hang out with her and friends back home (where her BF is) and I didn't kno how to respond so I played it safe by saying, "sorry I'd love to, but can't make it this weekend).
I've been texting her to hangout on the weekends, and only once has she responded, and it was when I invited her over to watch tv with just me. She says she got in a big fight with her BF, and I said, don't worry, he's prob overreacting. After that, she starts ignoring my texts, even though I'm trying to organize a group get-together, and nothing one-on-one.
meanwhile, I've started dating other girls and that instantly got her attention. instead of ignoring my texts, she starts texting me and asking me to study with her, hang out etc. this is where I'm stuck now.
If this girl wasn't in my social circle and I just wanted a hookup, I woulda been more aggressive and been done with it, one way or the other. But she and I really have a lot in common, and if anything I would want to try a LTR with her, or just be friends. I would rather keep the group of friends we have, then lose it over a ONS.
so, what do I do? is she a branchswinger or just missing the attention i was giving her? I think this girl is decently interested, but I have never gamed on a taken girl b4.
