DragonBlood
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 20, 2012
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- Age
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Hi guys, I did some day game cold approaches this week and could do with some advice.
4 of the 6 girls I approached gave me their number but so far none have replied? Here is my approach and I was wondering if there is room for improvement or am I doing something wrong? Return on numbers is good because I focus on girls who look like they are in a good mood or not in any hurry.
DB: hi/excuse me, your really cute/attractive/beautiful whats your name? <girl name>
DB: *shake hands* Im DB
DB: are you new here? / what do you study (its a campus so this starts a good convo). If they give me something specific like they are an art student or whatever I might suggest we go to an art gallery etc later on the campus if they seem interested. about 2 - 5 mins of rapport building.
DB: Are you single? (somewhat regardless of response)
DB: Whats your number? (if they seem keen, otherwise cut them loose)
<maybe some rapport>
DB: cool I will text you later (or something)
*end on handshake*
I dont consider the "instant date" route as I have discovered campus girls walking around or sitting on the grass are often in a hurry to make their next class or waiting for a friend or something like that.
*wait two days or so*
"Hey <girl> its DB how are you?/how is your week going? "
*no response in 5 hours from anyone?* I send the texts out around 7ish when classes are over and people are winding down.
I mean, in some cases the girls are asking me a lot of questions about what I study, where I live, good eye contact etc and on one occasion asked for my number regardless of having a boyfriend. I come across as friendly and casual. Although this is my rough guide I dont push the interaction and generally laugh off the situation if it starts going south. I have the mindset that all girls are replaceable until they appear on a date so Im somewhat more aloof about the outcome and just enjoy the conversation.
Is my text game off or something? I feel like I should follow up my texts tomorrow evening if they dont get back to me. Something more teasing or specific but I could do with advice here? Like teasing their shyness and asking about their schedule? I have experience with cold approaching and Im obviously chuffed with this result as its helped alot in terms of getting over an ex, but Im still not getting much further? At least two of these girls seemed genuinely interested so Im a bit confused.
4 of the 6 girls I approached gave me their number but so far none have replied? Here is my approach and I was wondering if there is room for improvement or am I doing something wrong? Return on numbers is good because I focus on girls who look like they are in a good mood or not in any hurry.
DB: hi/excuse me, your really cute/attractive/beautiful whats your name? <girl name>
DB: *shake hands* Im DB
DB: are you new here? / what do you study (its a campus so this starts a good convo). If they give me something specific like they are an art student or whatever I might suggest we go to an art gallery etc later on the campus if they seem interested. about 2 - 5 mins of rapport building.
DB: Are you single? (somewhat regardless of response)
DB: Whats your number? (if they seem keen, otherwise cut them loose)
<maybe some rapport>
DB: cool I will text you later (or something)
*end on handshake*
I dont consider the "instant date" route as I have discovered campus girls walking around or sitting on the grass are often in a hurry to make their next class or waiting for a friend or something like that.
*wait two days or so*
"Hey <girl> its DB how are you?/how is your week going? "
*no response in 5 hours from anyone?* I send the texts out around 7ish when classes are over and people are winding down.
I mean, in some cases the girls are asking me a lot of questions about what I study, where I live, good eye contact etc and on one occasion asked for my number regardless of having a boyfriend. I come across as friendly and casual. Although this is my rough guide I dont push the interaction and generally laugh off the situation if it starts going south. I have the mindset that all girls are replaceable until they appear on a date so Im somewhat more aloof about the outcome and just enjoy the conversation.
Is my text game off or something? I feel like I should follow up my texts tomorrow evening if they dont get back to me. Something more teasing or specific but I could do with advice here? Like teasing their shyness and asking about their schedule? I have experience with cold approaching and Im obviously chuffed with this result as its helped alot in terms of getting over an ex, but Im still not getting much further? At least two of these girls seemed genuinely interested so Im a bit confused.