PrettyBoyAJ said:
A couple months ago (December), me and my girlfriend decided that we were going to delete our facebooks together because multiple times in the relationship I have gotten upset at things that were on her facebook and once she got mad at me for something because of another girl posting on my wall.
After this discussion she says she will delete it soon....... I then delete my facebook later on in the week and she still hasn't deleted it. A couple days later we get into an argument about it then then I finally give in and say she can keep it for some dumb reason.
Weeks later we get into another argument over facebook and I tell her the discomfort I'm having over her being on facebook. She still refuses to deactivate it and say that it's pointless to deactivate it because she doesn't see a problem.
Then today I finally decided to put my footdown on it because I don't like the fact that she still goes on facebook even though she knows that I am very uncomfortable with it and I also think that by not having int will help our relationship. She then says she's not deleting it. So I tell her that I'd rather find a girl who is interested in how I feel about things. Then she just said ok.
She says that she has tryed to improve for me because she doesn't get on facebook when I am not around. She says that if it is out of sight it is out of mind.
After hours of argument we came up to the compromise that she would deactivate her account until May. I find this real funny how I feel like at the end of the day she will get everything she want. When it comes to small things and when it comes to big things. In the argument she told me "My problems are my problems, I will fix them by myself and I don't need you to help me fix them". I am thinking to myself that I don't think any girl in any relationship would think like that. Only a man with a lot of pride.
EDIT:In the argument she also said that I was not the person she fell in love with. The person she fell in love with was the person who was out all the time trying to be social. and now I'm not that person. I really do not want a friend unless it benefits me somehow because naturally I really do just like to be alone. I'm more focused on school work and getting business accomplished rather then smoking weed and hanging with guys most of the day.
First off, congradulations on realizing how much productivity Facebook drains from your life.
But...
Holy SH*T you are INSECURE! You two sound like a pair of high schoolers going at it, without even knowing how to "go at it".
Who CARES what kind of sh*t guys post on her wall? That's the stuff you can SEE. What kind of messages do you think she gets from guys, away from public? You can't control what they write, and she can't control what they post.
You're trying to CONTROL your girlfriend, and limit her social contact with people. That's CREEPY and INSECURE.
And who gives a flying SH*T about your f*cking FEELINGS about something as trivial as Facebook, dude?
And you're dwelling on "love"... what the f*ck? This sounds like a high school soap opera.
Get your **** together; you're the problem, not her. If she's on Facebook when you're around, you're not interesting to her. If she's F*CKING CHEATED ON YOU, THAT'S
YOUR FAULT. Would a woman who is dating a MAN who gives her great sex and is secure with himself ever DARE to cheat on him?
