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I've been away from the board for awhile, focusing on my work/career moreso that focusing on trying to date girls. At my company, anyone we meet is going to be from work and there are a surprising number of couples within the company (it's a large place in the middle of nowhere and we work long...

Trend: (Usually attractive) girl asks for a bordering-on-taking-advantage-of favor one time + I don't honor the request = I'm dead to her. Or...I say/do something innocently + girl takes her frustration out on me = I'm never forgiven. Apparently, showing I am not a pushover and showing I am...

Perception can trump reality. This week, I met with one of my superiors to go over a project I completed. The project turned out very well, but he still wanted to talk to me (usually, he never needs to). He says I remind him of himself years ago, and that's a good thing because he has been...

During the winter/spring, I began working at a new company and met a HB9 who was nice and cool. While we got along well and there were some IOI signs, we could never meet up (complications in our schedule the main culprit). She was a temp at the company and her time at the company ended soon...

Back when I was growing up and in high school, my peers didn't really think much of me. Though I was accomplishing a lot that would go towards my career, my scrawny frame and my lack of assertiveness/awareness socially during that time kept me out of the loop of basically everything. While at...

Before I dive into the meat of the post, here is some background on the setting of where I am: I currently work a job at a large company - with a lot of people around my age - located in the boonies. Observing fellow co-workers (and experiencing some of this myself), I have come to...

-At work (big company, a lot of entry-level people close in age), a girl erupts on me for no good reason in front of my friend and a cute HB9. I had met this girl (the angry one) briefly once before, I knew her favorite college sports team. They lost to a heavy favorite the day prior, I...

Yes I know: this thread is slightly off-topic. However, the answer may have to do with things on this forum. I am a very good athlete. I am not tall - 5'7" - but am in tremendous shape, have a great speed/strength combination, and am well-coordinated (catching passes, getting the bat on the...

I have stumbled upon a weird phenomenon regarding people I have known the past few years. My question, as the post title says, is if I am just being paranoid, or if there is more to this strange happening. Some examples: -- 3 years ago. My sophomore year of college. I got to know a few guys...

...a girl using "no contact" or the silent treatment as a test/game and a girl who just doesn't have any interest in you/doesn't care for you? Are there any ways to tell which one she is doing? If the HB decides to do this immediately when she leaves (i.e. she returns to school for a little...

I may have stumbled upon an interesting phenomenon the past couple of days, and I wanted to see if it held any merit. In the past, in cases that I pursued a girl and was rejected/turned down, people seemed to know quickly that I "liked" her. I'd talk to a HB once, afterwards my friends would...

Very recently, I met a HB9 who seems great. We connected extremely quickly and there are some IOI's coming from her. Unfortunately, a cruel wind has blown into the scene, and that is where I need help. The issues: -Well for starters, this girl works at the same company I do. Because I know...

Apparently, I have a very good memory. It's not photographic, but I can retain a lot of information in a little amount of time. Over time, I have realized, when it comes to social situations and girls, this is...a bad thing? The situations are similar, I'll use the other day as an example...

This thread is more two-fold, but both involve my new job and how to handle two different situations that fit in with the DJ mindset. 1 - I know what jealousy is, why it exists, how it usually develops, etc. Recently, I began working at a major company/corporation and...it seems I am facing...

...at least when it comes to girls I knew in my hometown area or in college, I seem to be held to an unrealistic standard that is near impossible to fulfill. Example 1: New Year's Eve. A small group of us, 3 guys and 2 girls, are on our way to a club to meet up with other people. On the way...

Over the past couple of weeks, I have discovered some things about myself and my game. My friends and I went to a local bar a couple nights ago to catch up (we've all been running around doing different things) and they brought up the following (the 1st and 3rd were more them, the 2nd is more...

First, Happy New Year's! Here's hoping there were some good times. My night was fun, but also left me with some good things to ponder going into 2011. I went to visit a friend of mine in our nearby city. In this group were also some people we knew from college. In the small group, there...

I have mentioned this in regard to a post or two before, I work with a professional sports team. This past weekend, we hosted an event at our stadium. Because G*d likes to mindfvck with me, a HB 8.5 from one of the schools was working with our department. Not only that, but it was set up...

I am a part-time employee with a sports team. Recently, I met a HB9 who is a postseason game-day assistant who works with out department. She was with us for about four days over the span of a week. The relationship I have/had with her was, in a word, unique. I don't even know what to make of...

I fear "dipping your pen in the company ink" to an extent. I don't want to risk getting into any trouble or getting fired. This viewpoint was driven home a couple of years ago. I was interning at a company and became attracted to another intern, who certainly had looks (HB 8.5). Before...