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Blue Phoenix, thanks for the posted links. It seems so that you're very interested in this psycho stuff. I've often read that when a BPD and a NPD are in a relationship, they've at the beginning a win-win situations because both are psychopaths with common criterias. But also in this combination...

12 years with a BPD woman..:eek: Hell no. I'm feeling for you man. When did you've seen the first signs of her poisoned character? Why did you've stayed so long in this hell?

..and then all of her friends believed her that you were the crazy one:-) Especially the BPD girls / woman who have the BPD criterias only in relationships are hard to spot. And at the end no one will believe you that she was so awful to you. High functional BPDs can be good as friends but in...

Very Good. Thanks for sharing.

When a BPD rejects you, you should be just happy and close all the doors :rockon: But it's true, too many men are using this label as a excuse. Everyone of us has some personal disorder "habbits" but we aren't by them psychopaths. And many women can be impulsive and moodiness out of their...

Very good. One of my ex was so. The boredom was caused by her feeling of emptiness. Then she did want just to sleep and to be alone. At least she was so good to realize this for herself because in every other way she would have caused just problems to her lover :D

I believe BPDs women are easily spotting out the weak points in a men's character. First they fill them and then they are "testing" your borders with their fvcked mind games. If a man feels and is complete by himself they can't get so easily attached and they lose very fast their patience or...

From now on you'll need also 6 hours of time to reply her text messages. If she is mention it, tell her that she should change it, otherwise you can't change it too. If she's still not changing her behaviour you will double the time and let her wait for 12 hours. She's your distance plate and...

...mhmmmmm..sometimes I think everyone should have made in his life a BPD experience. Just to learn about the own borders and mistakes. It's a great "psycho trip" to study the own character and the weak sides of it. So see it in this way to improve your inner game. You'll become the old guy like...

Man, you'll need for this story more than just some weeks.. but month after month you'll feel better and you will also understand more about yourself. A BPD female is a perfect chameleon. She is giving you "this" what you want because she is reflecting at the beginning also your inside. At the...

Hahahahahaha... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bAm0Xe2bTS4

@ KontrollerX: Thanks for your perfect explanations about NPD! Why do you believe that the best pairing for a BPD is a ASPD and not a NPD? @ ALL: KonrollerX has pointed it out! BPDs are MORE manipulative than NPDs..and even some therapists refuse to work with BPDs because they are frustrated...

..of course for spinning plates they can be wonderful. Also you aren't so much fixed to her and can act like a NPD (if you can). But if she is your ONE and ONLY... then you're having one of these BPD stories here. You can go then with her to a T..or better..run..run..run away:-)

Sinistar wrote: "However are great match for BPD/HPD female is a NPD or Psychopath Male. They will never give enough for the other party to reach the flipping point." DonS wrote: "In terms of psychopathology, borderlines and narcissists dovetail together perfectly. The borderlines...

..one interesting question:-) Why should be a person with a narcistic personal disorder being the "best character" for a BPD? :confused:

@ Vlad the Impaler: It always takes two for the tango. But never dance with the devil because you will loose this game. Only people with a personal disorder can stand a BPD game for a longer time without being more damaged. Don't loose your time and be so masochistic to yourself. Just believe...

Well KontrollerX but this is so hard to understand. Because at the beginning you're for a BPD the white knight and the rescuer..her personal hero and her one and only superstar. She is wanting to "tie" you also by this feeling. So to fit this role you're doing at the beginning everything you...