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    Does anyone else think this is true?

    Just wondering if this is true or not, but: Are women most likely to sleep with you/be with you if you can CONVINCE them that they are falling or are in love with you? I dunno, but one thing i recently noticed was how some guys pretty much say "i love you" like in their ****ing 3rd day of...
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    What if it ALL didn't work?

    Hi, I'll admit I was a lurker from before. The one issue I ALWAYS ****ing had was a confidence, self-esteem, issue. I literally read through a lot of the DJ Bible, pooks books, etc. All in all after some years (yes years) I never felt I broke my barrier. I tried to practice a lot of it...
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    This has been THE WORSE I've felt in a long time

    I've never known I could feel this bad about something like this. This girl at work was a girl I flirted, hung out with, even dated and got somewhat intimate wit. I never took it completely "for real" because she was either pushing me away or pulling me in all the time. Guys, she played...
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    Why is my confidence so low?

    I'm realizing how crappy a lot of the people that surround me are. Family was never really good. Mom n Dad liked to tear me down and they were abusive. So were a lot of my foster parents. Co-workers always seem to pick on me. I don't really have many friends and it sucks to realize how much...
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    Being there for her (is this AFC behavior?)

    This might seem stupid, but if the girl you're talking to is going through emotional problems and you try to be there for her would you come off as AFC? Maybe by trying to make her laugh ("trying" since sometimes it might not work), giving general advice, listening to her, etc. I have to ask...
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    Is she just a REALLY good tease?

    I'm getting such a mixed signal from this girl, but I'm starting to think she's just a tease or attention *****. We can talk about sex and she sometimes even brings it (or I bring it up) during small text messaging convos. Most of the time though (IN PERSON) if we talk about it and I hint at...
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    Can't you attack from the "friend zone"?

    I was wondering about this for a while. Seems like landing in the friend zone is the worst thing possible. Still you are able to gain some information from there and was wondering if it's possible to somehow "trojan horse" your way into her mind from there. The way I see it, some people end...
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    Question to DJs and LJBF zone

    One thing I always hear about is the LJBF zone and how you have to be an animal and pounce on the prey when it's ready. If you take too long then all you will do is waste the opportunity. What I don't get though is how there are some guys (I think here and out in life) that never land in this...
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    Something I just learned about being the "nice guy"

    Got hit pretty hard today by a fact. Too all the nice guys: WOMEN DO NOT FEEL COMFORTABLE AROUND YOU I was basically a nice guy around this one girl. So then I guess I get this sort of oneitis and I'm able to twist a conversation with her to see what she thought of me. Truth is she felt...
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    wow, I never knew it was this difficult...

    There's this one girl that I wrote about before that just felt like nothing would work. I would get moderate attention, but only when I gave some to her. Basically I was looking to see if she had any interest in my, but man it's like nothing was good enough. So I've been doing this whole sort...
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    Hobbies to help motivate you?

    I'm currently in a slump. So far I've taken some of what is here and tried it out on this girl at work. It's like the most ****ed up roller coaster. Some days she shows interest, some days no interest, some days great, some days not great. Today was one of those "not great at all" kind of...
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