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    Is this girl playing games or is she just shy?

    UPDATE Well guys, good news. I finally bit the bullet and called the girl earlier today. She answered on the second ring (good sign!). I had actually prepared some topics to talk about and I kept it light, funny, and short (under 5 minutes). She eagerly agreed to meet me for coffee tomorrow...
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    Is this girl playing games or is she just shy?

    Yeah, she did look just a tad bit on the geeky side and perhaps a little shy. That's why I am not sure what to do. If she was one of those stuck up 9s or 10s that gets hit on by guys 24 hours a day 7 days a week, then I would be sure she was playing games with me. But she is not, so it's hard to...
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    Is this girl playing games or is she just shy?

    Yes, I do need to figure out my next move, but I can't. That's why I came here for advice and posted detailed listing of my communication with the chick, so that maybe someone here with more experience with girls can give me advice.
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    Is this girl playing games or is she just shy?

    You have me mystified here. What are you saying?
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    Is this girl playing games or is she just shy?

    Nope, don't know what her other job is. At this time I am willing to give her the benefit of the doubt. I think I will call her one more time, I am just not sure how long to wait before I do that. I mean, I called her yesterday, I can't call twice in two days, that would be too much and I would...
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    damn in uni and I still haven't got laid.. school is almost over.. I HAVE to get laid

    Dude, since you are desperate your best bet is to find girls that equally desperate, i.e. fat and/or ugly chicks. You know what they say, you have to start from the bottom. They get horny too, and if you are a decent looking guy in good shape, it shouldn't be too hard. Also, you may try older...
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    Is this girl playing games or is she just shy?

    Ok, I have a situation with this girl I met the day before yesterday. I had to go to the doctor so she was the nurse, you know one of those cute girls that calls your name, then checks your pulse and all that before you actually see the doctor. Just for the record this girl was very cute and...
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    Need advice with this chick. Trying to get her phone #

    Hi all, Here is the situation. There is this chick I've been "working" on for some time. She initiated contact with me via email. We see each other 1-2 times a week and email regularly. I've been doing the ****y & Funny thing with her with good results and have tried to remain a challenge...
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    My first kiss.

    Hey Luke, congratulations man. Good job! Keep on sarging. One step at a time. I remember my first kiss. I was 23 at the time and this girl at the restaurant I worked at was crazy about me. I had no clue about attraction, ****y & funny, neg hits and all that at the time, but because I wasn't...
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    Approach Paradox.

    hey Luke, Here is an idea, the next time you see a girl you want to approach DON'T THINK about it, just DO IT! My rule is this, if you have to think about it, you are in trouble.
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    saying i love you

    I agree with some of the things you said and disagree with others. First of all, I disagree about it not having a special meaning. It has a special meaning if the one saying it truly loves whoever they are saying it to and if they don't say it too much. There is a couple I know and they truly...
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    What do you make of this girl?

    Hey guys, I haven't posted here in a while, but I've got an interesting situation right now so I thought I'd turn for advice to all the Don Juans on the forum. Here is what happened: I met this cute girl at a Thanksgiving social event last month. We talked a little bit, I did some ****y &...
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    A serious question for all you guys doing "cold approach journals"

    here is my reply, i do have a "cold approach" journal although it is not posted online. the point of doing a cold approach is not to get laid or get azz, the point is to improve your dating skills. Like Mystery said, it is not the getting laid or any particular girl that matters, the game...
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    the difference between showing interest and showing feelings

    yes, Bible_Belt, that's one of the smartest things I ever read on this board. Good topic!
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    Well here's my sob story...lol

    take out a piece of paper and write down what goal you want to achieve. then write down what steps you can take each day to achieve your goal and FOLLOW them. i know it sounds lame but if you are disciplined and stick to it, it works. call it a self-improvement journal if you will...
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    GF : I sense bad news, what do I do?

    I would call her to ask how the test went. What do you have to lose if you do that?
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    Female version of Don Juan Forums

    try www.ivillage.com
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    Picking up girls in bookstores

    hi guys, has any of you here tried to pick up girls in bookstores, let's say Barnes & Noble or Borders? I go to Barnes & Noble once a week every week, i like to hang out there, look at books, get a cup of tea or something and i have noticed there are many good looking girls there, either just...
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    How do you DJ's play "the phone game"?

    i met a girl on Friday (Sep 15), and got her phone number. My plan was to wait until Sunday night to call her but she texted me on Sunday morning. We exchanged a couple of texts. On Wednesday night I called her and asked her out and she said 'yes'. This Thursday we went on a date. What i...
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    How would you feel if your GF was best friends with a guy?

    OP, that sounds very suspicous to me. i don't believe that a guy can be 'just friends' with a girl. I am willing to bet money that her best friend guy has feelings for her and is just waiting for the right time to make his move. And what's this about him staying with her while you are away for 3...
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