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Coming from a Buddhist perspective, it shouldn't. Then again the buddhism isn't talking about 'romantic' love. Loving everyone unconditionally is fine. It only becomes an issue if you expect everyone to love you back because of it - in which case you are setting yourself up to fail from the...

I'm an introvert to - I'm pretty sure I even have Avoidant Personality Disorder (in a mild form I think). http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Avoidant_personality_disorder Women do like introverts because (in my experience) they think deeper about issues, aren't concerned with impressing everyone and...

Well my point was kinda that if you can convince her to go for a 4 hour drive to your parents resort, then you can probably convince her to go for a 15 min drive back to your house. Edit: It's like me saying how can I use my Ferrari to pick up chicks? If you want a chick who likes you for your...

I remind myself that she's just a girl.

It seems like the point of the thread is how you can make use of your parents resort? Why would you risk a 4 hour trip (each way) for the sake of sex? IMHO forget the whole resort idea - win them over on your own merits.

Dude, welcome to my life about a year ago. It took me until I was 22 before I broke out of that situation - and I'm still 'recovering'. If your anything like me, you probably think people are judging you. It's hard to put in words, but even though you know your an intelligent and not butt-ugly...

Sounds like to much research to me. If you already know the woman why don't you setup something one on one? If you don't know them, then just go straight to a bar and find some other random?

Of course it's fine. If it isn't fine she'll let you know by not giving it to you.

Ah it sounds like your in the friend zone, or at least heading that way. Next time you are alone with her, kiss her then walk off. She how she responds next time she sees you. I know this sounds stupid - but your in school so use this as a learning experience.

"hey - whats your mobile num? was thinking of going to see * on sat night- interested in coming along" Short, straight to the point and indifferent. The indifferent part is good if you're still plagued by fear of rejection.

At this point I would have started laughing uncontrollably. Nothing funnier than a b*tch thinking I give a sh*t. Nice play anyway man!

Exactly man. Chicks can be just as 'dirty' as guys in the right situation. As you would expect they get compliments/attention more often so it's not as 'powerful'. They're def. not going to slap you or anything. So just do it!

Nothing really to say except that over time you will be confident enough that this slides off your back. It will happen. Dude you are so heading down the wrong path. A car doesn't mean sh*t. The fact that your a human being and alive is all that you need to allow you to talk to a woman...

Agree with them. The can't give you attitude if you don't fight them. A girl at work told me today that I was "a real ****head". I said "sure am babe" (not being C&F at all) and kept on walking. Whenever she's being a ***** speak to her in a tone that implies that you don't care.

First some facts: 1) I'm 22 (almost 23) and still a virgin - there are others out there. 2) Never rate chicks again - never rate yourself again. 3) If you feel worthless you'll never be in a relationship. You gotta fix this first. 4) Getting a hooker will give you physical pleasure, but your...

Even if she does have a boyfriend. Hang out with her anyway. Hot chicks generally have hot friends. Best case you hit it off with one of them - worst case you get more experience with a group of hot chicks.

This is the wrong attitude. There's a problem if you think other people are cool and want to emulate them.

Confidence. Generally people only say stupid and dumb things when they are nervous and trying to get a laugh out of someone or impress them. Unless your being racist, homophobic, overly sexist or deliberately insulting, you shouldn't care what you say. People aren't going to remember it forever.

For a specific answer you have to give more info. However just use this: "I'm thinking about going out for some {type of food} tonight. Interested?"

You wait until the next time you see her and tell her "What time are you going to meet me at X?" You have to assume that she already wants to spend time with you.