For those of you who are hot heads like me how do you handle being AMOG'd in a group setting be it at a group dinner with gf's/friends and 1 guy wants to show he is the big man or tries to test you making derogatory remarks or comments belittling you in a jokey manner to assert his authority and...
Yeah if i were to do it again i would choose a diff place to sit side by side
The place was candle lit, it essentially was a more expensive coffee date without coffee, i go places for decor and ambiance as creates better atmosphere for kino'ing and kiss closing
I chose this place because i...
Can you leverage knowledge, information expertise in your favour to level up?
I have so many things she wants to know and learn hence her tryna keep me round for the friend zone + tryna extract as much info as possible in the car knowing she prob wasnt gona see me again
Not for her i mean in...
I thought naively telling her what it was in advance would help when she saw it i even explained to her why because i cant be having some luxury car as clients wont like the idea they are funding my lavish lifestyle so i need something neutral but you're right it comes across insecure and i need...
Yeah exactly but again she makes good money herself much more than me lives in richest part of town but pays for it herself she is in finance so earns very well not just some PA
Never said she was a gold digger per se
She makes good money Def more than me prob I would say £60-80k/yr given where she lives and places she goes to i know her profession they pay well def nothing under £50k at her age of 29 her rent per month is like £2k
Just she was asking me a lot of...
Yeah women are so weird
I wonder if mentioning you are seeing other girls from the dating app this weekend would help our cases more with a bit of jealousy thrown in?
I have been on dates like this before in the past so i like to think i can recognise IOI's
So her interest was moderate rather than super high like had i walked her to the station i could escalate kino
I just felt bad cos it is -3C outside so thought what the hell give her a lift back, now i...
Ok so now i need to think where i went wrong in the date so i dont make the same mistakes again
What are good topics to talk about to get it moving in the direction i want?
Tbh if i walked her to the station instead i could have kino'd and escalated like i have done in the past
Ok her interest wasnt super high but high enough i thought to take it further
But again I'll never know
Just a decent hatchback nothing fancy
I mean she lives in a rich area of the city so used to being taken in mercs etc i even told her in advance i cant have a nice car cos clients will think im spending on their money funding my lavish lifestyle they don't like that.
Not sure why she was...
Unfortunately the place we went doesn't have side by side seating only on a big table with other people lol
There are like stools facing a wall with 4 seats so a risk if i go there again i guess need to find alternative place to take women like these
How do you turn it into a sexual thing when their mindset is LTR?
Like the skills is being able to change someone set on a LTR mode by escalating into a oh it just happened type thing
Having looks matters obviously as makes it easier but im unsure what to talk about or what to say on dates to...
Yeah def not DTF
I just feel going on these dates you can tell who is going for LTR or who is open to short term and skill is being able to think of you as short term but my skill level is not high enough
What things should i be talking about on dates to get the buying temperature up?
It is...
Im in pretty good shape better than her just she is thinking about her what her friends think or places we would go abd doesn't want to compromise
High maintenance stuck up snob types but actually not snobbish outwardly just internally and inevitably her friends are though
I went just now on what i thought was a really good date
Interest from the start IOI's laughing at my jokes
Yeah i could have done things bit better maybe used better topics but overall it was good from my pov
My only thought was she cut the date short cos it was getting late and she has...
I dont have an abundance i need to keep my focus on increasing plate numbers and never looking back
It bothers me most when they are really hot like i feel as someone older the time to get younger HB's esp online on apps is long gone anyone 40+ is instantly disregarded unless they are...
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