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    How to bring up the idea of a threesome discreetly?

    So me, my girl and her friend are all hanging out this weekend. I've become very fond her her friend, we have gotten very close. Anyways, I want to try to bring up the idea of a threesome, but I want to do it very discreetly. Any tips?
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    Show girls "Your World"

    I made a comment on a DJ Discussion thread regarding this, but I wanted to give back and elaborate a bit more here. Basically, when I was back in my AFC ways, I always allowed the girl to lead. I mean, not on the first couple dates, as I would be the one to initiate. But on subsequent dates I...
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    Been a long time, but advice needed

    Whats up bros! Been a long long time since I was on this site, but let me tell you guys, it helped me out big time, and I continue to keep on learning from it! So, since the last time I posted on here, I have changed dramatically. I learned the ways, got myself a nice, busty gal that i f***...
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    In a bad situation

    Hey guys, been a long time since I was on here last. Since my last post, I finally got laid and entered into my first relationship... but now, I really wish I hadn't... and I need advice. Here is the gist. Met this girl back in April last year. She is 10 years younger than me (I'm 30, she...
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    500 Days of Summer... worth watching!

    I wasn't too keen on seeing this movie, but I got dragged into watching it... let me tell you, I'm glad I did... Hollywood made a blueprint of what NOT to do when you want to get women! I swear, I wanted to SLAP the main character around so bad, he was a huge AFC! He made every wrong move in...
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    Finally nipped the problem that was holding me back

    And I feel like a fool after all these years, for not wanting to hurt my own pride. The problem, all along, was anxiety. It just ate at me. Call it social anxiety, whenever I was around people I would just freeze up and become extremely awkward. Whenever I wanted to ask out a chick, my...
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    Big thanks to all the posters here

    Things are FINALLY starting to go my way. Got my first plate going (she is a 6, nothing special but its a start) and I'm meeting up with a solid 8 at a club tonight. Might have another date lined up next week. Yes, things are finally looking up and wanted to say big thanks to all the guys...
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    Drop it or try again?

    Talked to that girl I like today.. Asked her out for an ice cream.. she said it's too soon since her breakup (2.5 weeks) Said she doesn't feel comfortable at this moment... :rolleyes: What do you think guys? Was this too soon to ask her out? Should I try again later on? If so, how much...
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    Depressing thought for me... I can never see myself with a gf/so

    I guess it's all the rejections I've faced in my life thus far, but I honestly can't see myself ever being a LTR with a girl, getting married, etc... even if a girl shows interest in me, I always assume and figure nothing will come out of it. Ever since the Sodini thing that went down, I've...
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    Making inroads

    I'm finally starting to show more confidence... Went to the bank today, saw the bank teller I like. Ill call HBT... She and her bf had split up last friday... First thing I notice is she gives me a huge smile as I enter. Now, I went in with a "I don't give a fvck attitude". I decide to...
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    I have crowded teeth... any advice?

    I think one of the reasons for my lack of success with girls is the fact that I have terribly crowded teeth... My parents never bothered taking me to an Orthodontist when I was young, and now I'm paying for it. Seriously, it's bad I look like a vampire when I smile and I'm very concious of it...
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    Is independence attractive?

    I don't have many friends, so I do almost everything by myself (playing golf, going to the beach, going to movies, even the occasional eating out alone) and it got me wondering... most people think that this is being wierd or creepy, but doesn't that portray the opposite, in other words, doesn't...
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    Need help don juans! An opportunity has presented itself to me!

    Alright fellas... Remember that bank teller I was talking about? Well, she just dumped her bf. She added me to msn messenger (I was scared ****less to chat with her though, so I logged off... She was listed as away.) Well, as you can guess I want to move in. What's the best way of going...
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    Was I being Chivalrous or AFC? Maybe a **** test?

    So, I just came back from the bank and ran into the bank teller I'm attracted to (the one in the relationship, but I don't care I'm running game) So, we're talking, I'm making her smile and all that ****... then she says "Jeez.. this line will never end, I need to hit the bathroom" alright, so...
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    Girl I'm interested in posted her phone number on facebook

    Alright, a girl I like posted her cell number on one of her friends walls on facebook. I'm awfully tempted to call, but I'm thinking this would be a bad idea. Or maybe send a text saying something like "hey I saw your number and thought I'd say hi... now you have mine" or something to that...
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    How I'm losing weight

    I admit to myself that I'm a bit obese (about 30 pounds or so).. and I've started to shed the weight. So far lost 5 pounds in a week. Just thought I'd let you know how I have been doing it. Quite simple really: 1. I cut down on how much I ate BIG TIME. No more fast food junk, no more...
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    I give up!

    Honestly, I can't take this **** anymore. Today was the last straw for me. I thought FOR SURE the chick from the patio was showing strong signs of interest. Not just this chick, but all the rejections in the past, from girls who said yes and then ****ed me around, to the flakes, etc... Nah...
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    Fellow DJ's, please tell me I havent blown my chance in this situation!

    Alright guys, here's the deal. I've been starting to feel alot more confident about myself lately and have started going to the bars again, by myself I might add. Anyways, here's the scenario: I went out Thursday night, to this patio bar on the waterfront of my city as there was firework...
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    are girls with lots of friends on facebook/myspace attention *****s?

    It's late at night and I am browsing through some of the profiles on facebook (friends of friends, that sort of things) What I have noticed is that some chicks on there have an ENORMOUS list of friends (I'm talking 400+ on their friends list) Is this a sign of attention *****s? No one can...
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    Trying something new after a rejection

    So, I was sitting on my couch reading and something just hit me. When most men get rejected, they usually just get the heck out of there. That's what I did anyways. But next time I'm going to come prepared and get at least the last word in and make it C + F on the chick. For example on the...
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