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This is something my current gf brings up a lot if there are ever any doubts or issues. She says how loyalty is important to her and she is extremely loyal. It's the one trait her friends will accolade her with. (Is that the right term?) Its also something I came across when I was dating. Women...

I've been in a relationship for around 18 months and it's had its ups and certainly had its downs. I've debated leaving, we've fell out numerous times but we work it out. Something happened a couple of months ago and I was racked with anxiety whilst she was out having a few drinks. I woke up the...

I met a girl 4 weeks ago, she's 39, I'm 35. We hit it off quite well and had good chemistry, it was all fun and things were going well. We've both put effort in and spent time together, both staying over at each others houses. The first sign of something not quite right came a week after we...

Not sure why it's going wrong all the time but might as well give a few stories on what's been happening. I've been single a few months and I've had quite a few dates. To describe myself, I'd say I was a good looking, in decent shape, energetic, outgoing social type who comes across confident...

Since being single I often go out for meals alone to different restaurants. Not all the time but occasionally when I don't feel like cooking at home. I'm currently at nandos as I type this. Does anyone else do this? Can feel a bit strange when you see other couples eating together or groups of...

Today was my birthday and it's almost midnight where I am. I realised something today. All we have in this world is ourselves. Nobody apart from ourselves cares about us. I got a text this morning from my ex wishing me happy birthday to which I replied thanks. Didn't hear from her for the rest...

OLD. Been chatting since yesterday and spoke for the majority of today. Not just brief texts but full page ones back and forth. Now, I want to meet asap but she's just came out of hospital and can't meet for possibly 2 weeks. How do I sustain her interest for that long? I don't want to talk too...

Met a girl Who I've texted for about 2 weeks and been out with twice in that time. Over the course of the 2 weeks she has implied that I am her man and she is my girl, asked for kisses and cuddles in texts and comes across a bit insecure. I have a feeling it could get worse. She wants to be in...

I've been looking at a new car and even though it's affordable it will still take 10-15% extra per month of my salary. I've thought about not getting a new car and keeping what I have after reading this article...

I have a reasonably nice car but it's not a head Turner. Just wondered if I was driving a top of the range vehicle would women be more interested in you. Do they view that sort of thing as success in their mind? Would it matter if I drove a beat up old car from ten years ago?

So as part of being a DJ is looking after yourself and taking care of your appearance. Here's mine: Food: healthy wholegrain breakfast with some fruit and protein followed by approximately 6 meals throughout the day of a variety of meat, carbs and veg. Drink water throughout the day. Hit...

I've posted previous threads about my relationship and the majority of the advice was to walk away. After more arguments we split on Friday last week and I've tried to initiate NC but just had so many questions to ask and have been unable to do it so far. Today will the be the first day I don't...

So as most you may know from my previous thread, myself and my partner hit the skids so to speak due to my insecurities and constant accusations, questioning her feelings etc and it resulted in us living separately with no hope of living together because she doesn't think it will ever change...

Hello, I'm new here and signed up for thoughts and advice. I'll post as much information as possible about what has and is happening: I met my girlfiend in 2015. It has been almost 3 years together. I am 33 and she is 43. She has a child from a previous relationship and the child is 6 years...