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    getting flaked

    Hi guys, I am still new to dating world, I had solid success, about a week ago I met ****ing hot girl at birthday party, we were playing drinking game and I cant really remember but we were cuddling and kissing for most of the night, We didnt really talk, I just know her name and I added her on...
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    I need some tips about moving on

    So I am in nc for about 4 months, I am doing way better, I am hanging out with friends and studying, working out, reading, listening to music, I have set goals and I am working hard to achieve them, I stopped stalking her social media 3 months ago and went on 2 dates and they were ok but my ex...
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    Should I presue this girl?

    When she gives excuse then she is not interested, just ask yourself would you give excuse to someone you want to go out with and she ignored you which is obviosly disrespect.. forget about her, since you have no history it should be easy..
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    i told her i love her and she still hasnt said it bk

    love you as person- as a friend, walk away, she is just playing with you and eventually she will reject you..
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    Girls asking guys out

    Hi guys, we all know that modern society taught us to approach and contact girls first, it is like obligation to us, unwritten rule, I did same things and ofcourse you sometimes score and sometimes you dont but my last girl actually asked me out and she was like 9/10 and I was bit shocked...
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    photogenic but not attractive

    I find this thing really interesting, I personally look better irl than in photos and for dating world and social media today there is massive use of photoshop and ofcourse this weird thing, for example I saw pictures of a lot girls and they were amazing and when we met I was like is this same...
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    I saw ex yesterday

    So I saw her yesterday at the local party, we kinda share social circle so I knew that I will see her at some point, I am in Nc since december and was doing pretty decent, I started training, meditation, focusing on college and going out with friends, I didnt check her social media in about...
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    how to stop being the nice guy in life?

    You dont need to stop being nice, just know your limits, you probably had bad exoeriences with people and you learned from it hopefully, be yourself, you dont need to change your personality because of women, ofcourse dont be women in relationship, but if she doesnt see your value, **** her, it...
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    Has this ever happened to you?

    So last year, when I was 18, one girl from my university fell really hard for me and in 18 years I had only one girl and was focused on school and gaming mostly, I was just nice to her, because I am friendly towards people, she asked me out and I didnt want to turn her down instantly, but I knew...
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    She expected too much?

    You are right again, I knew logically but emotions ****ed me up, we went more than 5 times out and if she didnt show inteterest I wouldnt write here, I wouldnt say i have no self worth and I am pretty cinfident, because I am smart and good looking, problem is my huge ego, I dont like to lose at...
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    She expected too much?

    You have valid points man, I am not experienced in dating, I am 19 and i was focused on school most of my teenage years, I messed up with confessing my feelings early, we chatted less than an hour, I was busy with college and she is in school too, I cant say I was needy i just didnt want to wait...
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    She expected too much?

    I get that know, I rushed, but it doesnt really matter at this point, we just cant be friends, and i cant be orbiter, even if she reaches out again, i cant trust her anymore, so i would only use her for sex.. yea.. which can happen if we get drunk..
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    She expected too much?

    It is really hard pill to swallow, expecially if you are experiencing it for the first time, which was my case, knowing you have "soulmate" and you cant do anything about it, i kinda moved on, it is not i am forcing anything or expecting her to change, i just dont want to date anyone right know...
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    Making my Intentions Clear

    She could be busy, bur generaly if she is super interested she will reply as soon it is possible, not longer than 10min, if you dont have intention of being her friend, then go for it, you have nothing to lose, you are not together and you are not friends, so you are not losing either friend or...
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    She expected too much?

    Holy ****, women are complicated hahah, you explained really well so thank you, that is what probably happened to me, she was hurt before and she couldnt attach to me the way I wanted, frustrating part is that she had no explanation, and we as man use logic for everything and that was just...
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    She expected too much?

    I cant really say i was too nice, I was acting normal and direct with what i want, and yes she is young, there are some things we cant control I guess
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    She expected too much?

    I am 19y old, and i met this girl back in october, there was instant connection, we talked about books art and music, and she gave me her number and agreed going out again, we went out again, and it was really good, she asked me a lot questions about me, she introduced me to her friends, we got...
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