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    Dating Actresses/Drama Students

    Anybody had experience here? What has it been like? For me, the word "drama" is operative (duh, I know). Mixed signals in the lead-up to the relationship. Insecurity and cattiness in the relationship. Disappearing without a trace after. Talked to two girls who I've known for a while this...
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    Am I An Enabler - Or the Hot Intern Conundrum

    I have been dating a woman since February. We get along great, but there's no long-term there, we've both said we want to keep it casual and we haven't called each other BF/GF. So really, we're just dating, which is great. She may have an issue with me dating with other people, (she's asked if...
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    "Creative" = Ghost? Blow To Self-Esteem

    This is one of those "I know the problem, I'm looking for confirmation - or am I crazy?" posts. I'm not looking for answers, more group therapy, haha. Ghosting in my recent experience has been a HUGE issue. Very demoralizing. But I'm starting to notice a pattern (sorry, I'm slow) - I'm a...
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    Call her while she's out of town?

    I'll preface this by saying I've had lots of great first dates that never led to a second date. I've concluded it was a mix of bad timing, and me being too overeager, too soon. So with that said.. Had a great first date. Lots of fun and chemistry... and some making out (PG-rated). She said...
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    First Date/Second Base - Salvageable?

    So much to my disappointment/confusion, my last few first dates went great, but they ghosted before the second date. The 'ol self-esteem has taken a bit of a hit. These were cold pickups and OLD, so no big. This newest girl I know personally, so I'd like to avoid the ghosting fate. She invited...
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    Meeting Girls You Don't Know.

    So yeah, with social media you see tons of attractive women who are "Friends of Friends", but because of the creep-factor, you can't just randomly message them without being "guy who randomly Friends and messages girls on FB"...so what to do? I'll provide an example I'd like specific advice on...
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    So where did I f**k up? Or did I?

    First date. Met a girl for drinks on a Wednesday. Had a great time. Conversation was strong. Chemistry was great. Invited her back to my place. She was open and receptive. We went through 1st and 2nd bases, but she didn't want to go any further, so I backed off. At no point was she a cold fish...
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    Post-Breakup Fog is Clearing. Need Perspective.

    Again, the post-breakup fog is clearing. Just coming here for some opinions. My girlfriend of 19 months broke up with me two months ago. She's 20, I'm 27. Everything was fine until I made a comment that I wasn't going to propose during an upcoming trip. Key word - "during." We took the trip...
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