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Update. Not good - Not bad. Asked her out for this week but she said she was busy for the week and then she asked me if I was around on Saturday. Sadly I cannnot - as I am busy on Saturday - So it looks like the ask was nullified? How should I proceed? Thanks for all the great advice too folks!

I think letting the week play out is best - let her get her fun out for her bday (I don’t want any part of that) I’ll wish her on Wednesday and reach out next week

Themselves. Talk about her. Her life, her day, etc

Hey Guys, Looking for your guidance - recently meet a girl. Definite cutie - I like her vibe. Asked her for her number a couple of weeks ago and got it. I waited a couple of days to message her as I had plans for the weekend. Eventually did message her - had a low key good conversation...

Are there any articles on the DJ Bible on how to lead more effectively?

Agreed. Iv got the benefit of vacation in front of me - this will give me time to rebuild value and go at it again - for now I'll spin my other plates. To add one thing about this one, Bingo-Players point is bang on - this girl is hot and she knows it. She wants to be lead I know for a fact I...

These are all great points! Keep Em coming Let me update the gang, Friday night ran into her and just asked her out directly to come over Saturday. She agreed. Great. Spoke Saturday and she said she got pulled into work and wanted to reschedule. Told her I'm good with that but would talk to...

So boys a bit of a twist on the story, my friends and I are heading to the bar she works at - I will def see her there - already messaged each other and said we look forward to see each other Should I just tell her to come over tmrw directly?

Disagree, somewhat.

Great points Powerful article! It's bang on - Iv been playing the coy card for too long - she's said multiple times she's interested in me so it's time to dance

Well said

Agreed! I can imagine if she uses this line on most guys they get confused - I took it as a "I'm tryin to regain control of this convo" thing - I'll play it cool

This girl is a major over thinker - so I'll just remind her that there isn't really anything to talk about because we get along really well, I'll end it telling her to be over Sat night

I suppose the part of my game I struggle with is when the girl knows I am interested and I know the girl is low key interested - forces me to become more direct which is not my game. I like to keep it mysterious - I need to be more direct and keep my options open in case plan A fails

I'll come at it from this direction - with my own flavor of course

Any examples on how to ask? I usually play the low key sex card

Good points - my biggest concern is showing too much attention as this girl has said many times that she has men obsessive over her - I am very careful not to come across that way I have gotten this far by balancing staying cool, being a man of my word and not making her feel to special (from a...

Hello guys! Looking for some help here Meet a girl a few months ago and been spinning her plate for a bit now. Last week she finally agreed to come over (confident persistence pays) and we ended up having a great time - no sex. A couple of days after I shot her a note and said we should do it...

How did you do it? Get the girl after getting shot down so much - also, respect for getting the girl!

Persistence has its merits! I am selectively persistent as to not come across as needy Also, this girl has told me that she hates it when guys obsess over her (big clue)