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    On vacation for a week, trying to get a girl here out

    Traveling in Europe for one more week, had met a cute Japanese girl in a cafe. Asked her out to find a good pub, she says she might not be able to meet this week due to lots of schoolwork. Any method of advertising you use to make going out seem awesome? I figure trying that won't hurt, unless...
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    High attraction but low chemistry

    When things start out looking great with heavy IOIs, etc. Then after an hour, things fizzle out, she gives awkward vibes Some would say this is strictly due to not moving in on an escalation window But sometimes it's a date scenario where you had planned to eat, have little room to build...
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    Push/Pull, getting back "pull" and developing natural "push"?

    A few years ago when I first started with girls, I used to practice attracting ones who were somewhat attractive, but who weren't my ideal type. This created a powerful mindset of automatically not investing a lot of value into them, because of the obvious balance between nonverbally...
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    Changing plans to tonight, while being high value?

    What's the best way to suggest tonight, without seeming overeager? How true is it that girls are the easiest, right before leaving home? How would investment levels apply to this situation?
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    Does sex too soon ever actually decrease in women the potential for a longer relationship?

    In men it can make a girl look too easy to be taken seriously as longer-term potential But what about in women, is there any chance it could make her see you only sexually? Or is her attraction going to be too high for that to matter, and you can have her stick around regardless? Since a lot...
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    Renting a place close to one girl?

    Haven't banged this girl yet but there's mutual interest I'm currently abroad and will leave after 2-3 weeks The debate is, if I rent a hotel closer to where she lives it will make logistics easier for her to bang...but it will also look like I'm chasing and centering my plans around her...
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    Time between first and second dates

    Is there an ideal number of days? A length of time when if exceeded, it becomes very unlikely for anything to happen? Traditional advice says that you need to restart from square one if you've let enough time pass for the emotional momentum to fade... but then I also hear a lot about it being...
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    Did I completely screw this up?

    If I could redo this situation, instead of saying I had different dinner plans than her, I would have put the "i'll stroll around the park tonight, you can come join me if you want" at that point instead of later. One possibility here is that she was interested in doing something with me that...
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    Keep getting close to same night lay, then she flees and has second thoughts the next day

    Seems easy enough to pull a girl on first meet, making a strong impression and leading etc. If you bring her to your place, get her a drink, make out, fondle boobs, then she puts on the brakes and texts the next day saying that went too far... Is it just a sign to establish more comfort? What...
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    When you get attraction signals but resistance to dating

    Possible reasons: -She isn't comfortable yet with the idea of going out with someone she just met randomly in public -The attraction started good, but dwindled in the conversation or you revealed too much too early -What else?
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    "Too busy to go on a date now" as a sh!t test?

    When a girl has other priorities than dating you filling her schedule, how much of that would you say is genuine versus a test to see if you can break through/advertise a date well enough? And how would you go about doing it? Normally I'd just keep chill and tell her to let me know when she's...
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    Keeping her romantic story alive

    The last relationship I had, things went slowly downhill after I said "I love you," like her story ended, she was satisfied and didn't need anything else. So how do you give her episode 2 or an extended play or whatever?
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    I seem to only be able to get insecure girls

    or mediocre-quality girls with high self esteem... but they don't matter anyway. Only 8/10 or above girls who are into me are always insecure about themselves in some way. The real easy type of girl. I need practical ways to increase the strength of my key and not settle for ****ty locks. What...
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    Framing yourself sexually from the start?

    Obviously the art of touch is important, as well as keeping your emotions somewhat ambiguous and completely controlled... What about on online profiles, where you only have an image and impression to exude?
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    Enneagram test

    Similar personality typology to Myers Briggs http://www.9types.com/rheti/index.php Just seems interesting. For example apparently type 8 is the in control leader one, 7 is the maverick with ADD, 5 is the nerd, 4 is the romantic, etc. Here's a better one although has more questions...
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    Mens value versus womens

    Isn't it true that a girl/woman will pretty much peak at her maximum market value when she has youthful looks Yours can only increase, the more you develop yourself. If you want to have more power than women, working on yourself is the prime objective, not wasting time on women more than...
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    How to just forget about women?

    Without even going out and getting a lot. Just not placing importance on girls at all. As if they don't mean anything. It'd be nice to have some, but it's not a priority and I don't want to invest emotion into girls.
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    Should I feel bad about not taking a girl's bl0wjob virginity?

    I was in a LTR with a girl for a year, but I never got the desire to make her suck me off. We did a lot of sexual things other than oral, it just never really occurred to me to do it. There's a chance I'll get back with her in the future (don't ask how I know, long story) but the thought that...
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    Girls who are shyer, cleaner, more conservative, less experienced

    Very broad topic, but what are some simple ways that the game changes with girls who are not as easy, not as open, had less guys before, basically LTR material, would test to the point of not allowing themselves to be quickly banged and discarded? Some of these might want to get to know you...
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    Girl might not have refused kiss, if there wasn't company at home

    We were cuddling on the couch on date 2, but she could hear my roommate in his room and resisted my kiss. Is there any chance to pull it off on date 3, if we're completely in private? How soon to the beginning of the date should I attempt? Should I not take her to any other locations first...
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