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    Worth my time? If so best approach?

    I'm a typical busy college student and got overwhelmed in school and work this semester. 5 months ago, I met a girl I was interested in. I have only occasionally (maybe once or twice a month) communicated with her via snap chat but not much else since then. What's the best way to start things up...
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    Contact After a Few Months of No Contact

    Background: I am in college right now (living at home for financial reasons so limited ability to do things at night) and frankly haven't seen many girls on campus I am interested in. On top of that, meeting girls in my normal routine is difficult in my degree (Comp Eng) and my job (lab tech); I...
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    Sexual Harassment

    I'll totally admit that it is creepy. Just trying to get a gauge for what a normal personal boundaries (sometimes google provides some pretty left points of perspective as well as some pretty rapey points of view). Is there a good site you would recommend to look in for that kind of information?
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    Sexual Harassment

    I have a fear of running into trouble with the law and don't really have any natural personal boundaries; what are some general tips on what can and cannot be used against you legally (or by a college)? All the feminist bull**** saying you need consent to even say hello has clouded my judgement...
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    Difference between relationship and friendship?

    I'm relatively new to dating and red pill in general. I have read through so general books such as Bang, the Rational Male, the Game, the Art of Seduction, etc., but still have some lingering questions. Normally when I start going out with someone, within a few dates, they turn into friends...
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    Text message meaning

    totally recognize the short time was a screw up and generally dinner provides no benefits. As I am not 21 and have no easy way to get alcohol, what is a good alternative to the idea of drinks only on 1st hangouts?
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    Text message meaning

    I am a college student and texted a girl I don't know super well if she wanted to get dinner in about an hour (a bit late minute on my part, but that's when the idea hit). She replied six hours later with "Hi [my name] I am so sorry for the late reply I just got this notification I am totally...
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    Should I be helpful?

    It was some notes for a test. I will take your advice and not send them. It will help the curve anyway for her to be less informed
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    Should I be helpful?

    I recently got rejected by a girl (probably was too nice guy and slow) and now want to keep contact to a minimal so I never have to listen to any of her pointless problems. She is requesting me to send her a document (would take all of five seconds on my part). I don't have any desire to be her...
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    Text Messaging

    Is it okay to ask a girl out to an event via text if you missed them at school, or is it best to wait to see them in person? An event came up for tomorrow, which I'll go to anyway, and I am trying to figure out if I should be last minutish and ask in person tomorrow or plan a bit and ask via...
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    Timing

    Looking for some general advice here: In high school, how far ahead should you plan a first date? Obviously, doing a week ahead of time is pretty stupid and desperate seeming, but waiting until the last minute for spontaneity seems to have some drawbacks. What is a good rule of thumb for how...
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    I need some crush advice!

    For plate spinning, if you are struggling, try to look for at least one girl per period to consider. That will take some mental pressure off and make you look less desperate.
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    Cancelling Last Minute?

    If she try's to text me about school, do I reply or do I not?
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    Cancelling Last Minute?

    Over the summer, I tried to set a date up with a girl twice; both times she came up with an excuse like "I forgot I had guitar practice at that time." Then she got back with her old boyfriend and we stopped talking. Recently, she broke up and has been initiating messages with me (although mostly...
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    How to define as a date?

    Background: I am a senior in high school and have yet to actually go out on any dates with anyone. I plan on asking out a girl who I have known for 13 months and has recently been single (Out of a very long, multi-year relationship) for about a month. Recently we have been talking more, and I...
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    Messaging someone I just met

    I recently attended a week long leadership conference. At the end, we were able to leave notes for each other and I left one calling a girl beautiful with my phone number. She texted me with: Hey [my name]! It's [her name] I just wanted to thank you for the letter. Your very sweet and kind...
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