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I would have responded with a sly grin and something like, "'Cause you seem pretty OK... so far."

Become the man you want to be and you'll attract the right kind of women.

Being nervous, over-thinking things and TRYING to make a good impression doesn't do any good. Take it from someone who's made that mistake too many times. The key is to be as uninvested as possible in the outcome of the date. I realize that can be difficult if you really like the girl, but...

Thanks for the feedback. Here are three of my own experiences from recent years that illustrate the truth of that maxim. 1. I was in a relationship with one girl for a whole year. I fell hard for her and I would have done just about anything for her. But she was a raging narcissist and...

This is allegedly an old saying but I just became aware of it recently. How many of you have struck out with a girl you really liked only to realize later on that you're probably better off? I can think of a few instances where I would have ended up unhappy in the long run if I'd gotten my wish...

This is a really good question. I would look at it more in terms of doing something you enjoy versus "trying." Even if things don't pan out with the girl, at least you had fun. Over the summer, I went on a bunch of little adventures with a woman I really liked. Even though the relationship I...

It really depends on what she's checking on her phone. If she's doing a check-in on Facebook AND tagging you in the post, that's probably good. I went on a few dates with a woman who was a compulsive Facebooker and she did this. On the other hand, if you're FB friends but she doesn't tag you...

What do you care where she falls appearance-wise on some arbitrary scale? Are you attracted to her? Does the thought of having sex with her give you a boner? If yes, then do it! Don't make things more complicated than they have to be.

Going back to my youth, the biggest DJ I ever knew was a scrawny little **** with a receding hairline and coke-bottle glasses. What did he have going for him? Charisma. He was funny, charming, intelligent and never acted like he cared whether girls wanted him or not. I was much better looking...

Relax. I don't think you fvcked it up. Being a little nervous and awkward on a date is not a crime. If she's worth your time, she'll see you again.

Don't ever think of baldness as a shortcoming that has to be "offset" because it's not. Yes, there are women who don't like bald guys, but there's an equal or greater number who lust after them. Notice I said "bald" and not "balding." There are exceptions, of course, but balding is generally not...

If you're not 100% sure where you stand with a girl, this is probably true. I had a golden opportunity go wrong recently (detailed in excruciating detail in another thread) and I think one of my biggest mistakes was sending her a message as soon as I got home. On the other hand, if a girl is...

One more: I was getting a BJ from a much younger, inexperienced girl who had told me up front that she had never swallowed before but was ready to do it for the first time. When I came, she started gagging on it and pulled away, but my fountain just kept gushing and gushing, all over the front...

There's a lot of truth in this. It defies all logic, but women seem to go for guys who aren't interested in them, or are maybe a LITTLE interested but not enough to lose sleep over it. Trying to maintain an air of cool detachment around a woman you really like is not easy, it's completely...

I lost my virginity when I was 18 but things didn't really start happening for me until I hit my mid 30s. I had plenty of opportunities during the period in between but I was clueless and botched most of them. I do think about my "lost years" sometimes but really, I'm mostly concerned with the...

I used to date a very busty girl and she liked it when I would finish by titfvcking her. One time my cvm landed in her eye and the poor girl was in agony - I felt terrible! Her eye bothered her for a day or two after that. That was a few years ago. We're still friends and we laugh about it...

I know it's been a while but I thought I'd come back and post a followup. So, as mentioned above, I got my courage up and asked for a second date. We made plans for dinner that weekend and after a short, playful exchange, I left her alone. I figured there was no point in pushing my luck and...

The woman I'm interested in now is drop-dead gorgeous and her last serious boyfriend was a dumpy-looking dude who makes me look like an Adonis. But he had charisma and confidence and he wasn't afraid to go for it, and I think that's the key. In fact, I probably wouldn't be trying with her right...

30 women in 30 years. But quantity means nothing; better to have a couple or three really fun, fulfilling relationships in your life than a hundred meaningless ones.

Understood, but do you wait a day and then send a message? Two days? Never? Maybe I'm old-school but I think that going totally no-contact after a date is risky. So anyway... The good news is that after fretting over her for days, I finally got fed up, manned up and sent her a very direct...