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Well, I have to agree and somewhat disagree at the same time. They were hardwired this way at least since the age of 3 as the fault of their primary caregiver. It has nothing to do with you or any of your predecessor. You can't possibly worsen their situation, they are running on an endless...

I'm going to be blunt, you're just too young to make a distinction between an infantile person and a full blown PD.

I missed the DBT part. At 4 years, ~30 percent archieve remission(not recovery!) with strikingly high rate of the recurrence rate. They can't be alone so always groom their replacement before ending their current relationship. Mine had 7 years of experience sneaking around while she was cheating...

The picture is usually much uglier than the one edgarcrema painted. I'm actually surprised that he doesn't mentioned possible infidelity. Borderlines are not capable of self-soothing like normal people do so they use people to their offset anxiety or get attention. Almost every case involves a...

"Actually, Borderlines aren't really attracted to codependents and codependents aren't all that are attracted to Borderlines in comparison to the stronger personalities, such as narcissists. Borderlines tend to stay in the cluster B group and either seek out other Borderlines or they try to...

Trust me, I know it. Just 5 months out of my relationship with BPDex. It doesn't worth it. Your self-esteem and your sanity is at stake.

Run!

BPD as a medical abbreviation stands for Borderline Personality Disorder. Two different conditions. For the OP, I agree with the posters above, RUN as fast as you can. Even if she's medicated and stable at the moment - which is at least possible for a Bipolar compared to BPD, she could still...

I can attest to this. With them, the highs are cocain like, but inside they are just emotionally stunted miserable little children. The suicide rate in the clinical samples is 5-10 percent, 400-800 times that of the general population. Mine had serious suicide idealization, despite having a...

Actually I find it rather funny. Living with one for years, spending hundreds(!) of hours reading support forums, books, medicals papers, talking with qualified therapist and going through C-PTSD-like syndroms. After all of that, a guy with the wikipedia definition and try to educate you.

Promiscuity is a trait, read the DSM-V. The diagnosis requires 5 out of 9 criteria, so it's alone won't qulify for one. I completely agree that we have many false BPD claims, mostly from young members. Those with real encounter will sooner or later end up on support sites like bpdfamily and...

Is it bad idea for recovered heroin addict to shoot smack into his veins just one more time?

Cluster B PDs are present 6-9% of the general population. High promiscuity multiples the chance to meet one. Mine had more sexual partners/paramours while(!) married than moste single women, especially considering her age.

If she was BPD than the reality was probably much worse than you could imagine in your paranoid thoughts. They are pathological liars. I constantly had to chase mine on dating sites, she was lying about orbiters and with all the attention on her, she could still manage have an affair behind my back.

BPDex unblocked me on Facebook. I literally feel that hell is coming as she's trying to find a sootheing object again. I'm going to block her from everywhere and deactivate my profile.

Well, I think sosuave is on the way to groom sociopaths.

Day 13 NC, a month since we last met with my exBPDgf and 4 months out if we don't count the brief recycle happened at mid january. It's getting easier but still think about her and my replacement.

Already found the answer.

http://www.columbia.edu/~ss957/articles/Racial%20Preferences%20in%20Dating.pdf Just to confront the facts with the anecdotal evidence presented here.

Well played. Just don't let yourself become her safety net or emotional tampoo.