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    Friendzoned - she is now dating someone, was my reaction correct?

    Because I work with most of them so off limits and they are 10 years younger, being in the 30s and single is tough...
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    Friendzoned - she is now dating someone, was my reaction correct?

    Yeah is quite lucky I have a lot of young attractive female friends (infact that's all I have) but not many possible plates or natural male friends . Wondering if is possible to turn her into fwb? Like when the bf is away on tour lol. Cos naturally we will drift apart away if they are serious...
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    Trying not to contact a girl I'm dating but...

    I always wondered if going NC is the best policy. stop being needy and creepy for sure.. but NC sometimes backfires unless the one who initiates can actually become unemotional about it. may be best to dump her before she does to you? at least you will have some power then. use some excuses...
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    Friendzoned - she is now dating someone, was my reaction correct?

    Please tell me how I did? This is an attractive girl who like to go on trips with me, posted photo of us together on her fb wall etc, but yeah, I know I was in the friendzone. But I do actually enjoy hanging out with her and the posting of our pictures do seem to provide me with some bragging...
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    Breaking away from beta condition is hard!

    So there is this hb who obviously just wants me to be her obiter, we would hang out, flirts and she even stayed with me in my hotel room during a work trip, I did make a move but no joy plus we were very drunk, during that night we took loads of normal pictures and she sends them to another guy...
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    Attracting an ex HB10 that is near the wall?

    Actually you might be right, I read my own post about her before and she is not worth it. http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=212646
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    Attracting an ex HB10 that is near the wall?

    What is the best approach? A little background, she is in her early 30s, used to be a HB10 with extremely high career prospect but due to many reason she had fallen on the career front. Frankly becoming a little BPD. She is still very hot for her age, but showing signs of hitting the...
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    Girl can be seriously heartless and selffish

    Not even a weak! I wouldn't do her html coding for her so she tried it herself and obv it has gone wrong she just asked me for ideas to fix it, I just said "Sorry, in the middle of something I have to go", That's good right? or is that mean?
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    LJBF - Did i do the right thing?

    That's only if OP can REALLY be her friend and not fall for her. I am dealing with similar situation. I know how you feel bro. As for the reply, just reply like you would to anyone, otherwise you will be wondering whole day everyday whether you should and before you know it, that will lead...
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    Girl can be seriously heartless and selffish

    We were really good friend once. We also had a bit of flirting before freeze out. The thing is she always like my updates and always start msg like "hows your day?" etc. it just seems rude if I dont reply. We had a bit of normal chat after. Anyhow, like I said. don't think I will see her...
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    Girl can be seriously heartless and selffish

    Haha classic, wish I could have work it into the conversation. She actually ask the HTML favour on FB wall when I posted the thread. Seriously, so she might be hot, but have serious issue lol. Anyhow, I think being indifferent is better than active avoid. Drama would just make things worst I...
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    Girl can be seriously heartless and selffish

    Yeah, probably should have block etc but burning brides was never my forte. Anyway I have really learn cos in the old days I would get so upset but now I can just laugh about it. :) Actually I am thinking I will reply "sorry can't help you there, luv you too x"
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    Girl can be seriously heartless and selffish

    Don't for a second think they wont use you where they can. The story is after a bit of a freeze out cos FZ basically, we got in contact again on FB and after a bit of FB interaction, we met up a couple days ago, we chatted and I was doing ok like talk about other girls, talking about how sex...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Broke NC.. I accepted her friend request on FB, it was seriously bothering me as I was thinking about it night and day. Anyway we didn't really chat or anything. Just the odd comment and liking each other's status for the last couple of days. The thing is yes, i do think how she could be...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thanks dude, tbh, I went NC because I was FZ and being taken for granted as well as her disrespecting me and stuff. So I finally decided is time to leave. You are right tho. checking her FB is toxic especially when there are tons of other guys wants her which makes me even more depressed. I...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thanks man, I actually really needed this.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Lexa - Day 15 After that emergency breaking NC regarding her brother. she tried to friend me on FB, I literally spent hours and hours thinking if I should accept her friend request or not, meaning I was checking her updates as well, as usual, tons of guys liking her stuff and I got upset, and...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Hahaha. Sometimes I think chicks just like to fight. I mean is like they would have any emotion rather then no emotion. Be careful tho, she will keep saying worst and worst stuff to get you to react and drawn in, and when you are once again emotional invest in her, she will find another guy or...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    This! It serves no purpose contacting her. Unless you have changed then is no point, and you can only change when you no longer have ex in your mind.
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    How does a mature man meet woman?

    Would any please help me? I am at a loss, it seems whatever I do is just get LJBF. I know first and foremost is to improve myself, i.e have a more alpha attitude, work out, get a higher status job, get a better place to live and then improve conversation skills, storytelling, negging, kino. Am...
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