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    Anyone here go to clubs, but doesn't dance?

    In general people look at people who are dancing on the dance floor. If you are sitting at the bar, chances are that people will not notice you. Going to a club is all about having a good time. Women do not like men who are holding drinks in their hands and stare at them all night. Most...
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    Bars/Pubs - Going Alone/Experiences

    Before I knew anything about this site, I always went out with my friends. But after reading the information on this site, I was eager to put the theory into practice. I noticed that my friends were always looking at me and when I started to talk to someone they were blocking me. So what to do...
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    I feel so down...

    Step by step, that is the advice I can give you. Work on your social skills. Try to work at a place where you meet a lot of people, men and women. In time you will develop your social skills. The club scene is a very hard place to pick up women. The competition is huge and the women are...
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    I overcame my fear!

    You just did fine! I must say that you are very lucky to get three chances to get her phone number. I agree that you should improve the small talk part, it is a bit strange if someone asks for your digits straight away.
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    The Ultimate Cologne Poll.

    I agree that many guys wear mainstream colognes. I live in Europe and here Curve is not a mainstream cologne. A friend bought it for me when he was on a holiday in the U.S. Most guys want to make a safe choice, so they wear the mainstream colognes. But I also like Creed Millisime...
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    The Ultimate Cologne Poll.

    I have quite a collection of colognes, but the ones that get me the most compliments and attention are: Romance by Ralph Lauren: since I started to use this cologne, I got a lot of compliments and attention from women. Curve by Liz Claiborne: this cologne gets me a lot of compliments...
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    Analyzing rejection

    Wondering if a girl would like to go out on a date is far worse than actually ask a girl and get rejected. After rejection, you can move on. There are enough girls out there.
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    the loneliness on the road to becoming a true dj.

    Your post describes exactly what I notice and feel during the last few years. After discovering this amazing website, I started to change. I wanted to live instead of to exist. I was really amazed and disappointed that my friends did not support my will to change. Before, I stayed home...
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    best friends

    I have to agree with Silquee Smoove, when it comes to women, friends seem to turn in your enemies. It could happen once or twice that your friends get the girls. If it happens more times, then I would say "they are not your friends". I have a "friend" and he has the biggest mouth. "I...
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    Remove all negativity in your life

    I believe people are taught that if you are a winner, they become loosers, so they will try everything to prevent you becoming a winner.
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    When she says she has a boyfriend.. but yet flirts away

    Same thing happened to me. It seems that women enjoy the fact that they get attention from another guy than their boyfriend. Or they do not have enough friends or the boyfriend does not pay enough attention to her. My advice: MOVE ON to the next girl. Stewartlittle
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    Social problems!!!

    Girls do like older men. Even if you get in the gang, it is not sure that these girls will like you. Almost every boy has faced this stage in life. If you get older, younger girls will chase you and ignore those boys of their own age. Spend your time on you! Develop yourself, do things you...
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    Keeping your word.

    A few months ago, I went out with a single friend of mine. We had a discussion about our non-single friends. So this single friend tells me that all our former friends forgot about us two and spend all their time with their girlfriends. They don't know us anymore, but when they break up, you see...
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    Weapons Of Mass Seduction

    Thanks Rave_82 for making the pfd-files available for us! Stewartlittle
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    Weapons Of Mass Seduction

    Señor Fingers, I have read many books etc. about dating women. Some were fun to read some were helpful, but your post is really the best. After reading all of them, I was (am) truly motivated to take part in the dating game again. Do not get me wrong, I get better at the game, but sometimes...
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    Sensitive guys

    Nice guys who show emotions are considered as 'girlfriends' by women. Although women complain about men who do not show their emotions, they want a strong man. This means that you never show your soft emotions, in case you need to talk to someone, talk to a real friend or get professional help...
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    Any tips on picking up girls online?

    Hey Tai, during my AFC time I thought that Internet dating was only for losers. After reading all the information on this DJ forum and a few books, I started to meet women in real life. After a while I noticed that it worked. However Internet is also one of many ways you can meet women...
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    I have a problem with affection......

    Epic, I know what you mean. My parents can not deal with emotions, this has to do with the way they were raised by their parents. They never said anything positive and they did not show any affection. I can tell you that it makes you feel very worthless. Now as I become older I began to...
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    Friends are not "Real Friends" at times

    I totally agree with you OddTech, real friends are very hard to find, but they exist. I used to have a friend who always defended me and we were like brothers. Sadly he and his parents moved to another part of town and back then e-mail, internet were not so easily to access as today. But when we...
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    Best Places to Meet Women?

    I believe the question should be 'where to meet single women?'
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