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Had a great date with a solid 8 the other night. But she's shy. I brought my a-game but tried to tone it down slightly for the benefit of her perceived "shyness". IOIs: She says I'm "not like other guys". She says I'm very "charming and charismatic". Body language facing me, mirroring me all...

During the countless dates I've been on with these women I always ask the same thing, enquiring why they can't find a decent guy IRL. They always say the same things, all of which could be a cop out, or completely true: a)When they go out with their girlfriends, they get hit on by a bunch of...

Exactly. And this milf was a solid 8 who I thought was very, very classy. An executive with a swanky apartment by the sea. I brought my A-game and entered into the "dating" frame with her (which I never do with these women) in an attempt to "woo" her because I thought she was "different"...

As explained, I've slept with over ten women from the Internet since ending an LTR 6 months ago, many of them on the first date. So I'm not arguing that its not a goldmine for easy lays, but in my experience the quality is severely lacking. If you're hitting gold with 8, 9s and 10s with no...

I've had first dates with girls which I thought went badly, and never heard from them again. Bored, a month later, I send a text and they say "why did you never get in touch?" Sometimes radio silence can be misinterpreted. Some girls play it cool to a fault. Some are waiting for you to take the...

I've had two pretty horrendous episodes this week which have crystalised a few things for me regarding internet dating and why you - as a self-respecting man - should not be using it even as a supplement. In the past 6 months - since leaving an LTR - I have banged 11 women from internet...

The girls on POF aren't "rejecting" you when they flake. Especially if they haven't met you yet. A lot of these girls: 1) have poor social skills 2) are just seeking validation and have no intention of dating 3) feel intimidated when it's time to leave the house and meet you 4) are social...

I've been on more POF dates in my lifetime than you can shake a stick at. If logistic allow, you need to have sex with them ASAP. The first night. Because more than likely, no matter how well you think the first date went, you will probably never see her again. Spending $40 on tacos on one of...

Never buy a woman dinner if you're not seriously dating her. I have made the mistake twice in a few months. Been laid a lot in the past 6 months - but never any poontang from the ones I bought dinner for. Weird. I am also pretty miffed at having to buy them drinks, but my rule now is one and...

In my own defense, there was a lot of last-minute resistance and her verbalizing that she wasn't sleeping with me on the first night. Now, I did try and push through it, but stopped when I hit the brick wall. Had it been someone from online who I knew I was probably never going to see again, I...

I'm spinning plates at the moment, have a lot of options, but there's one girl I've been gaming in the past month who is probably the hottest, and so my emotional investment has been dangerous. Date one: Just a casual drink, lots of kino, a make-out within the hour, get invited in for coffee...

Thanks for everyone's kind responses. During the 6 months I have played the field considerably, but it's been mostly joyless sex. I have pretty much checked out sexually and emotionally from the LTR, that is definitely true. My gut tells me "let it go" but you second guess yourself, and...

I'll keep this short as I am sure it's a common story everyone has heard before. I am 35 and have been in a long-term relationship for the past 6 years. The girl has her faults (a little bit emotionally needy and possessive) but ultimately a fantastic girlfriend: loving, caring, supportive...

I second what other posters have said here, you need to try and bang them on the first date. No "dating" mentality. I have been on MANY, MANY, MANY internet dates, and I thought I had struck gold once or twice. Date was great, girl seemed to be together, make-out session at the end, talking...

There were definitely no free dinners. I bought her one drink, and just the one. Her kissing me on the lips followed my "all the best" when I expected her to just exit the car. My follow-up text the next morning was a facetious text about our next date, but there was no definite offer on my...

You should use internet dating only as a supplement to real world sarging, and always always ALWAYS take internet dating with a pinch of salt. You may find some decent women there, who have it together, but they are in the minority. The best case scenario is you get laid a lot, but it can be...

Had a first date with a cool HB who is pretty close to ideal, about a 7.5, great career, with a ton in common. But I was feeling zero chemistry, and I surmised her interest as very low-level as the night progressed despite rapport and my attempts at kino. I decided to chalk it up as a loss. I...

I have banged about 6 or 7 chicks from POF in the past 3 months, varying in ages, from 23 to 45, and varying in looks from 4 to 8. Problem is, I've met about 15. Sometimes the girls are just too emotionally disturbed, or dumb, for me to want to have anything to do with (or there isn't much of a...

Thanks for all the responses! Whenever I have no free time to pursue women IRL, and if I have a spare minute, I use POF as a great supplement. I have been laid many times from the site, and some have been pretty damn cute (though, admittedly, they were ALL complicated and messed up and never...

I have been supplementing my real-world game with some POF fishing, and I have to say that the results have been a very mixed bag. A typical example is the date I went on Friday night. She was a solid 9, but a single mother. She delighted in telling me about the abuse she had suffered in past...