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    the final battle... sex in longterm relationship

    UPDATE: thanks for all the posts! It is indeed the first weeks in my new life! And I need to learn A LOT! BUT: I have talked with her and she know there are things that need to be changed. She can think about it for some weeks, I give her some space, (also to do a lot of self...
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    the final battle... sex in longterm relationship

    AlphaGhost - I believe you and I trust you... I will do this for sure! If she want to lose her prize over time - so be it! I stumbled on this: But after I got on this site, with the help of a few of you guys, I found out that being a gentleman was OK, and that I confused being a gentleman...
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    the final battle... sex in longterm relationship

    its true! I have took a new direction and a flood of information has come to me that I need to handle. but I don't want back anymore and that in less then 48 hours, ha! :-) My life shakes on his foundations. But I have a new little problem here in ...communication? I want to...
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    the final battle... sex in longterm relationship

    I want to fight for my LTR BUT also want the love and passion/sex back? I can start all over and put an end on this LTR - but I don't think thats a good idea and I think its not gonna solve my problems I want regain my manhood and save my relationsship? I see allready one thing for...
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    the final battle... sex in longterm relationship

    I feel like Alice in f*cking Wonderland when while i'm reading the book of pook! A new world has gone open for me... thats for sure. Its a positive comment! I really like his viewpoint but I think I need a lots of time ( a few months/mayby my whole life) to process and use this. BUT I...
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    the final battle... sex in longterm relationship

    Thanks my friends! I will keep updating this thread! I have already taken the first step... I don't ask for anything anymore - certenly not sex or kisses or even hugs. If she don't want it - its a missed opportunity for her! First things first now - Pooks writings thanks any...
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    the final battle... sex in longterm relationship

    Yep - I have tought about it and I need to recognize the second option counts for me - I'm not masculine enough - It was hard to understand your point but I think I get it and realizing it. become slowly aware of this - I understand these "relationship game" thjng but I need to...
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    the final battle... sex in longterm relationship

    Thanks for the reply guys! I see this can be an interesting topic I gonna explain some things a long the way! First of all: "You don't say "make love" around her do you? That might be your problem." this is something to think about - I try this a bit... May by I need to get her out of the...
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    the final battle... sex in longterm relationship

    Alright guys, you are my last hope! After visiting hundreds of forums about sex and relationships... I'm 30 years old and have over more than 9 years a relationship. the situation is actually quite simple: The sex is almost disappeared...I don't want to loose it completely reasons: - she has a...
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