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Whenever I go out, I try to not wear glasses so I don't portray the nerdy/intelligent persona. But, then I am not able to notice girls looking at me from a distance. But if I do wear glasses, less girls would find me physically attractive. I've tried contact lenses and they're a pain in the...

Wait did you guys mean quality as in value/SMV or quality as in moral character (not being with too many people)?

Where should I look to find a traditional relationship? Things that do come to my mind is Christians, church, Asian women. However, I am a little iffy on the Asian side because I am much more attracted to white women.

Times have certainly changed, but it also means that it is possible for things to shift so that there is equality for both genders but also women are a less loose with their sexuality. The pendulum is bound to swing back eventually. The fact that women are loose with their sexuality to me means...

So do you agree then sleeping with a new girl every week can have detrimental effects on future serous relationships and family?

I've been watching Jordan Peterson's videos lately and he to be attractive to multiple women, but only chose one. He thinks sex is dangerous because it reaches down to the soul of an individual, it involves emotions, pregnancy, disease, and much more complicated things that we cannot fathom...

Let's just forget about whether or not I remembered her or not. I approached bc I thought it looked like her just to make sure. It may have been her and she was lying or it was a different girl that looked like her. If it was her, was that a good move to approach?

That's what I'm fken saying. It's in a club. Dark af. Loud music.

I found her on facebook messenger bc it said she was in my contacts

I got this girl's number after class by opening with why I noticed her, showing intent directly. Exchange a few lines to get to know her a little and then ask if she wants to grab coffee sometime. She looks back at the lecture hall, which I take as we can get to know each other from class. This...

She’s using rape to build the illusion that she is desired. Coping mechanism for some ppl that was born with less

So do I just have unrealistic expectations for all forms of relationships? So when it comes to girls, I would have to lower my threshold of what is genuine? The thought of having someone spend time with me whenever I demanded sounds nice. But doesn’t exist in the real world.

So where can I go to satisfy my need for love and care? Do I have to go back to my parents? I’m 21

It seems I’ve never had success with relationships, but it is something that I deep down desire. I always have unrealistic expectations for a girl even when the interaction has not progressed through the necessary steps. And I develop feelings for someone after being around them for a while even...

Agreed. Porn made me into a little pvssy that never had a strong enough desire to get with women even though I told myself I wanted it. It was polluting my mind and it just didn’t function when it came to real women. Removed the porn, sexual drive returned

So this girl started liking me and wanted a relationship, but I wanted to still meet other chicks and party bc it's my last year in college. Later on I realize that I'm not about that life and would rather much prefer someone to have an intimate connection with and I realize how much of an @ss I...

Thanks for the reply that makes a lot of sense now. I used to have close to no sexual drive with women because I was still on porn. I always told myself she's not good enough and that I would was going to wait until I meet someone good enough. Little did I know that was just an excuse and that...

So girls are sleeping around bc they want sex but have not found the right guy. Is the fact that most men are too feminine causing women to sleep around bc there isn't a strong masculine man to polarize her make her stay? After all David Deida's book taught me that masculine energy is what...

So if you are the decent guy that comes along then she doesn't want to just fvck. She will hold off sex to try to get to know you and what not?