She likes one of them and isn't really interested in the other. If she really likes the military guy and is going out to eat with him and talking to him all the time, then chances are that they have a connection that she doesn't have with the other guy.
As soon as they see you're not in it for the long run, they're gone. They're not stupid and it's easy for them to figure out that you're just going to throw them away. And nobody wants to really like somebody and have that person just throw them away.
Just straight up ask her if she likes him. If she still does, then just let her go be with him. There's no use skirting around it and having her pretend to like you if she doesn't.
Hate to break it to ya buddies, but I never said sosuave was a PUA forum. It's just that there are quite a few PUA ideas floating around this forum. The self improvement stuff is great, the PUA stuff is a massive fail.
It's a bunch of guys convincing themselves and each other on internet forums that tricking girls into having sex with you will somehow make you happy. Six or seven years ago, I myself thought that this was possible.
The whole idea of picking up lots of girls to throw away as if they were...
It's good that people are in groups more because of social media. I like to be in a group when I go someplace and it makes it funner. If you'd rather people be more disconnected just so you can get laid, than you have a delusional viewpoint.
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