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What town do you live in? sounds like mine.

Oh yeah and mauser96 gave me tons of good advice to so listen to him as well

Hey man be glad you are out. It's been over a year for me since I ditched the *****. I'm still dealing with it. Go read some of my old posts and , pairplusroyalflush gave me some good insight so listen to him. But on another note you will never get the "closure" that a normal person would get...

I understand bud. Give yourself a goal toady and reach it. You will feel better when you do and it will keep your mind occupied.

Do it. She will ask where you have been and why you didn't text or call her. Give some interesting excuse . This goes with the part of making her think she is not good enough for you so she will work harder as of this point to prove she is. Just do it . I bet she will start coming out from...

Ok. Well just don't be that one regular that is her "medium" at the bar. It's a fine line to walk. But you have this . Just be a fun guy. Get your drink and and go start talking to people then pop in and out for a drink and chat with for a minuet or two when you do. That's how I started with...

Bro . Don't leave big tips. I never left big tips. The only big tip she needs is yours in her. If you left that big of a tip like espi said she will be looking for it again and again and you will just be that guy she woes and gives attention to when you come in. Take my advice .

Any one left in sc?

I dated a bartender one time. It's either a 100% yes or 100% no. They get hit on all the time. So you have to be ok with that. But don't even try unless you just want to bang her if she goes to the same place she works to hang out when she is not working . But the way I got her was being a...

joshs1974@live.com- I know when children get involved things get complicated. But the basic principal to why you are here still applies. The advice you received about taking it one day at a time is great advice. Im over 4 months now and it still gets to me sometimes. The challenge has helped...

need more info. How old is she ? Kid? How long did y'all date or whatever etc.

We all told you she lied. You didn't believe us. Now we are all telling you to drop her. You better drop her. Who cares if she feels bad. She cheated on you. There is no trust there anymore and if you did stay with her you will really never trust her again. Dump her now and start the no contact...

Hahahahahaha. She just lied to your face more than likely. Even if she didnt bang the guy she still chose to spend time with another guy over you. We will see you on here again complaining and looking for answer when she does this again to you.

She is distancing herself emotionally and physically man. We call this the detachment phase right before she dumps you. It makes it easier on her. Do a preemptive strike and drop her now.

I dont think your buddy was joking with you on this. I have a saying. If it walks like a duck , looks like a duck, and quacks like a duck odds are its a duck. Drop her like a used condom on a dirt road man. Sorry this happened to you.

Cluster B. RUN RUN RUN RUN

Past three months now. I'm done keeping exact days. I still miss her for some ungodly reason. But im not as bad off as i was. Got the normal stuff going on as of this point. Miss the sex, companionship, and wonder who and what is going on in her life right now. But the cold hard fact is i do...

Thanks man. Im going to take off early from work and go hunt some. I know getting some of this sunshine will help.

Ill help you out with some very basic rules to feeling better while your healing> Note i said to feeling better not getting over it. It will take a while to get over it. Im 3 months in from my break up with a 100% full on bpd or npd whatever you want to name her. I got all the head fvcking and...

So its been right around 3 months now. Have not spoken to or laid eyes on her until today. We passed each other driving and i think she waved , well im pretty sure she did. I hit rock bottom again after that. I feel like im worse off than i was at day one. All the old emotions and feelings came...