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    Encouraging GF to Dress More Sexy/Slutty?

    So much awesome advice, I really appreciate all your responses. I've got to make some changes. Hopefully I haven't already messed up the relationship beyond saving, but it's clear that her not wanting to impress me as much was just a symptom of a larger underlying issue.
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    Encouraging GF to Dress More Sexy/Slutty?

    Yeah true, I agree, I mean I feel like she can exude sex appeal regardless of what she wears. Before I posted my question here, I questioned my own thoughts/desires quite a bit. The oddest thing is... when I catch myself looking at a woman that appears to be 'sexy' in public. What I've...
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    Encouraging GF to Dress More Sexy/Slutty?

    Damn, I'm really glad I posted here, I was hesitating to before, but you're 100% right. To be honest, that's my fear, that at some point she would just stop trying because she got me already. Funny thing is, something she's said a lot lately over the past few months as she gradually started to...
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    Encouraging GF to Dress More Sexy/Slutty?

    Hey thanks good idea, never thought of really specifically complimenting her that way and building it up. To be honest I think rarely compliment her at all, or maybe I've said I like how she wears that stuff before we start having sex, but never say much in the moment at all. One thing I have...
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    Encouraging GF to Dress More Sexy/Slutty?

    Yeah my only fear with that is that if I keep accepting it, what happens another year down the road, she's going to be turning into one of those muslims who covers their entire body when they go out, for all I know (not trying to be political here just as an example). Though yeah I can tolerate...
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    Encouraging GF to Dress More Sexy/Slutty?

    I’ve been in a LTR for about a year now. My girlfriend is madly in love, and I’m starting to catch some feelings too. She’s about 12 years younger than me (I’m 34 and she’s 22). We met at work, initially becoming friends. We eventually hooked up about a month after we first met, after a...
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    How to develop plates when in a "monogamous relationship?"

    If you're cool with her picking up dudes to bang when you're not around, then yeah go for it. But if you've told her you guys are exclusive, then I would question your LTR or why you're wasting her time, or why you haven't just been straight up at the start. It's really tough deciding on an...
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    GF Insecure? How to Respond?

    (edited for privacy... I think question was silly anyway)
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    Still a bit awkward with GF of 3 months, should I bring this up?

    Apparently no one has asked this, but it's a super simple question that will reveal a lot about your relationship. OP: Have you fvcked her brains out yet? If no, then how is she your girlfriend... quit being a sissy and do it already. Personally I don't understand how you can be shy and...
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    Invested in an unrequited love. I want to let go but I don't know how

    No sh!t, she's 100% right. You can't "love" her just because you fantasized about some imaginary relationship. Love comes from trust and intimate caring, and it has to be mutual, not one-sided. Also, you totally blew your chance. When you first kissed her you should have continued to be...
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    attention from women who are taken

    Exactly this.
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    How to develop plates when in a "monogamous relationship?"

    Why do you want to drop these women after 1-2 years? Is there some formula, or do you anticipate certain problems happening at that point that would make you assume the FWB relationship would cease? The only thing I can think of is they develop feelings. But if not, why drop them? And you...
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    GF Sexy Clothes & Complaining

    So... my GF likes to dress a bit edgy. She generally dresses a bit too sexy for the occasion, like wearing a skirt with knee-high leather boots, or really tight jeans and midriff-bearing shirts. She's a 34B, so she doesn't show the 'crease' or bulging cleavage, but instead she wears...
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    What does it means when a girl teases you alot?

    Teasing is a sign of comfort. If a girl can be comfortable enough to bust your balls, it's like flirting, a sign of trust.
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    Tinder Experiences?

    1400, seriously? Are you like Brad Pitt or something?
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    Tinder Experiences?

    Have any of you guys had luck meeting any girls in person from Tinder? So far, I've had 5-6 matches (been using it for about 2 months and swiped right through maybe 300 profiles), but the conversations die after a few lines, or never even start. The only one conversation that kept going was...
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    Even Robin Thicke has been reduced to a bumbling AFC...

    Most marriages and divorces in Hollywood are a publicity stunt. If they're happily married they won't make the tabloids. That article you posted mentions that he will be naming his album "Paula" ... and he has a single called "Get Her Back" You really think the whole "splitting up" is not...
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    Questions About Day Approaching

    I'd like to start one of those approach journals, but I've never really done this so I have some questions. 1) IOI Before Approach? I've seen videos on YouTube where guys will just go up to a girl without any IOI beforehand and just start talking to her. They end up with the number, but...
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    What makes a city a terrible place for meeting women and dating?

    Personally, I'm surprised by the talk of Toronto being bad. There's a guy on YouTube called "Honest Signalz" that does very well and he's bald. This is his first video from Toronto: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NPe-gmWJApQ He has many more in other cities too. I think overall though, I...
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    How do women judge a guy's looks as in physical appearance?

    Sorry, being a fan of Avicii, I take a bit of offense to this. The singer of "Wake Me Up" is not Avicii; Avicii is a DJ / music producer. The singer on that track is Aloe Blacc. Aloe Blacc is a 35-year-old black man, who actually, FYI, is not gay. If you had watched the video just once you...
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