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that's because you have retained NOTHING of what they have told you. They have experienced it first hand, and it's the only way you are going to learn unfortunately. you're still together yes, and you're STILL POSTING....which means she has your head spinning already. the ex this, the ex...

what is was for me...was that after the breakup i knew right away that she might be HPD only because my father is a psychiatrist, if i had not known right away i may have hurt much more and made many mistakes in my recovery. What she did has made me somewhat PTSD. She became somewhat of a case...

best post i've ever made on these forums. RUN! RUN FAR AWAY AND FAST. THAT IS ALL.

I just text until she seems comfortable enough to take a call. Isn't it just one of the steps to getting the next meet-up? Text, then call, then meet up and do the real work in person.

The same can be said about a lot of posters on here. Ive read a lot of your posts...I know you have a good deal of knowledge on the subject, but yeah posting about it only prolongs unnecessary thoughts. True. Though you don't know the whole story, youre right about this post. It's merely the...

Theres a lot I havent let get to me. It wasn't on my wall. I'm not friends with her on fb. I just happened to notice it and because I felt I was basically split black... It's confusing that's all. I would have to tell you the whole story but honestly its in the past and I'm sick of talking about...

Mine's an HPD (apparently it's BPD's higher functioning cousin) and yeah the update...after almost complete NC she just "liked" my comment on my buddy's facebook wall. This is weird, because it seemed I was painted black by her. Dunno if this is the beginning of subtle hoovering, but I'm not...

you're right it does take learning a lot about the subject.....though here's a question. Do HPDs ever break up and NOT have a replacement lined up?

oh i know all about the disorders, trust me.. I've pretty much read this entire site and of course did my research before i even found this site. I was only wondering what the differences would be in the guide if it were a BPD girl. 5string, don't worry I'm well aware....i'm still staying no...

Read that guide by meta, great stuff. Though, do the same exact principles apply with a Borderline PD or Histrionic woman? (In this case a mutual breakup though, because you know she was cheating but she doesn't know you know, and the guy even moved in to her place... for a rebound relationship)

Oh trust me i know. You're right, there were indeed a few prego scares. If i did, i would wrap it up alright...but it's true, by the time i actually am over things...I probably won't want to anyway. She's a 7.5 at best, and always knew she was a little "off", as did my friends and family...lol...

It's like a case study to me now....the mirroring begins....and he's being sucked in. Little does he know....the mindfvck is only beginning....and the crazy part is....she's also unaware of what is taking place. 4 weeks ago she was asking me to hang out for christ's sake. Thank god I ignored...

Thought this was pretty funny. So after 2 months, her new live-in AFC writes on her facebook... "I find myself falling more and more in love with you as each moment passe.s" I'm sorry that just tops it right there. I thought I had seen all that is AFC. Poor schmuck...has no idea what...

sorry i meant highspeed, not alex...was looking at other forum

How long were you married to her Alex? Well I'm not sure if Cluster Bs are mostly women because it's easier for them to latch on to a new guy right away, or if it's just statistics from those treated. But yeah a lot of guys probably won't say no to sex from a hot girl in...

yeah i don't plan on ever being with her again, knowing about her mental illness. They just continue their cycles of destruction, and live in a different reality. It's pointless. I will say the sex was good though. I did read a post on the merged bpd thread posted by Blue Phoenix about how to...

Then why do I keep reading stories about BPD ex-girlfriends coming back after a few months from their new replacement guy? Is it that they didn't hurt the ex enough to kill her abandonment issues?

lol my ex Cluster B is a med student too...big surprise. She's is just about the 8th week with the "replacement" she's been using (he moved right in). I will tell the full tale one day but for now who knows. She's tried contacting me twice, once she says was by accident (rang the landline 6...

I know, very creepy. But one thing, she actually DOES have the goal of hurting you (the BPD, not the sociopath). The fear of abandonment does not disappear for them until they know they have hurt you, sucked the life out of you. Emotional vampires indeed.