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I've made it a resolution this year to MAN UP. After years of being lazy, scared of rejection, and asocial in general, I'm going out by myself, getting numbers, working out, and am starting to enjoy life. I still have a way to go, however. The other day at work I had a revelation. An older...

From my experiences the past year or so, I honestly think it's best for me that I give up the search for a girlfriend for a while. I've approached countless women, and it seems they're all w/boyfriends or otherwise not interested. The chase has brought me nothing to this point, and frankly, I...

After approaching many women, and getting little in the way of meaningful relationships, I'm left wondering if I'm coming at it wrong. I don't have any close friends; the closest people I know are married or engaged. I ask them how they met, and they always say, "well, so-and-so introduced...

It's been a long time since I've posted on here, since I've been busy getting some experience, but what happened this past week deserves a mention. I met an HB 8.5. In fact, she approached me (I'm NEVER approached by chicks). I get her number, eventually we go out for dinner, go back to her...

After spending a year, turning from AFC to R-AFC...reading the DJ Bible and all the trimmings, having moderate success with women (i.e. losing my virginity to a HB6) I'm convinced that the best way to attract women is to not give a rat's behind. I'll give an example: This past NYE I sat across...

No social proof + not a smooth talker = abandon the idea of cold pick-ups? This is very frustrating, particularly when the women look around anxiously, and I can feel the opportunities blowing up in my face. Then, I panic...I'll say something stupid just to avoid dead air and I come across...

Damn, damn, damn. I've been falling into a pattern with my approaches, and I'm starting to think I don't know what the Hell I'm doing. I understand dating is a numbers game, and that if you meet a woman with high interest, she'll make things easy for you. NO girl has ever made it easy for...

For many reasons, none of which I'll detail here, I'm a 24 year-old virgin. This is something I'm not particularly proud of, as it seems like there's a huge sexfest going on and I'm missing out on the party. I go out on weekends, talk to as many women as I can, and watch them gravitate to...

Over the course of the past year or so, I got rejected by all the women in my social circle, about 10 in all. One of them gave me a classic insult to injury qoute: "I'm gonna get you a girlfriend someday." Yeah, right. :mad:

Went out clubbing tonight, and as usual, got no play. I keep reminding myself, look confident, smile, converse, and dammit--can't beat social proof, especially when women travel in packs (and expect men to do the same). Just venting...am a bit drunk.