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I’m hoping this thread will not only help me, but maybe help others, especially those who might be in denial or not yet indifferent to the female mindset. Please do ask answer with your perceptions, or ask your own question… My clouded question… I’ve been casually dating this 45 year old...

Last night I was broken into. 50 bottles of vintage wine, a bunch of easy to carry items. What a mess. I'm going to throw some money at the problem and buy a security system. Two things ... I have a 15 year old kid that I'm a full time father of who's forgetful as can be. There is a cat in...

I've been dating this woman for a while and it was going OK (few games), but last night ran into a snag and didn't handle it properly at the time. Later it pissed me off and my ... AFC side wants to just be rid of her. I found this old thread, and it was informative, basically stating what I...

I'm not very good at rejecting people. Especially when they're very nice. Regardless, I need to do this and I'm not very experienced at it with this particular type of woman (nice, vulnerable, and completely into me). I'm thinking of using the ... "We're very different you and I. I think...

For those who don't know me, I've been on sabbatical for a few months. Life and individuality is progressing nicely. That said, when you've been on bread and water for some time, should something drop from the sky ... well ... sure! So, I've found myself in the situation where I'm kind of...

Met this Persian woman at the gym tonight. About 38, big blond hair (fake of course), pretty, about an eight. We started chatting when I asked her some question I knew the answer to (how to use the big ball for ab training). She gave me a run though which provided a ton of opportunities to...

My annoying story: Ouch As a type A personality, I'm naturally impatient to get things started. I don't want mr. wiggly on bread and water for too long. Impatient for more. However, I just don't want to go back to POF or Match. It's easy (like shooting gina's in a barrel), but finding...

How do you guys deal with this (or used to before the armor grew)? Do you start light dating again? Work on yourself & bod? I'm hurting here guys, I could use some voices. Thanks, SH

When my marriage of 14 years ended, I took a year off before I did much. And then it was only get the feet wet. After a few months, and finally moving beyond meetup.com and went to match.com, my dating life exploded. Two month thing, back in the saddle in a week. Now I'm faced with an 8...

As my relationship of 8 months is going tomorrow (my choice this time), I'm getting pretty discouraged with the LTR. On the AskMen site, they have an abundance of articles on how to break up nicely. I was good reading to be sure. I also got the impression that a series of short term...

After 7 months another relationship has bit the dust. I suspect that cause of the breakup was ultimately interest level and suffocation. In general, a good woman, but recovering from a bad marriage. I'm OK with that typical red flag as I'm recovering from my bad marriage and in about the...

Remember this thread? Same woman. It's been almost 6 months and I thought things were progressing well. Maybe they are, maybe not. We've had a lot of fun in the five months with hardly an issue (other than the odd nutty thing she says like in the linked thread). Never met someone that I've...

So, I'm wrapping up the Christmas shopping and am not sure how much to spend on a woman I've been seeing exclusively for almost 5 months. Just to put the relationship in context, it's very good, I'm pleased with just about everything regarding this woman and the relationship may very well...

Another two month relationship, another woman who doesn't know what she wants (maybe?). So I've been dating this woman who I met on line for a couple months. Very nice lady, very smart, not bad looking and my age. Sex is good, interest level has always been high and I was thinking we on...

I'm having a little trouble here gaining weight. Sure I could go on the beer/bon bon diet, but that's not the type of weight I'm after. I'm 6'1" / 180 lbs and have a 32 inch waist. When I was a young man, I was on a five day split and weighed a 220 (same waist), but I'm not in my early 30's...

I've been using internet dating for about the past 7 months with quite a bit of success. No LTR (past 2 months), but I do get lots of attention. For a time it was great for my self image and my social life (the caveat being it took time from my attack on life goals). What I've found is...

I'm trying to wrap my head around the thread title. As a recovering chump for most of my adult life, I'm perplexed as to why women encourage men to behave in the way that they instinctively despise. My one functional FB(ish), recently said "you are soooo nice". I laughed and said "that's...

Met a woman of high social status about 3 months ago. We had a very hot ... fling, then backed off as it was quite ... well ... ridiculous (and yep, I AFC'd a little - DJism was just a concept). She wanted to keep in touch as friends but I NC'ed her for a couple months and saw someone else...

I seem to keep falling in the same rut. I use an online dating service, not ideal, but … easy. The duration of these “flings/relationships” are lasting longer, but eventually I turn into an AFC. I’ve read just about every article pook has written on here as well as Anti-dump, Rollo Tommassi...

After a failed 15-year marriage to a HPD woman, a year of licking my wounds and some fast and furious failed short-term relationships, it’s time to break the cycle. I’ve been reading these forums for a while now and have been paying attention and really taking an inventory of my life. Some of...