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Alright guys. Go ahead and gloat. Rough me up. I deserve it. Called her tonight to say hi and make plans for the weekend. She answered but did not seem excited to hear from me like she usually is. Way different vibe. We talked for a minute, said she had been busy then ended the call pretty...

Tinder is dead. I have the same pics up on Tinder and Bumble. Get 10x the messages on Bumble. Quality girls there. Tinder is nothing but a wasteland of bots and fatties. In my area anyways.

Aware me on every red flag of being played then? I doubt it. Not typical of a player. She's not really getting anything from me.

This is a dilemma I've struggled with so much. You wait 3-5 days and it's very easy for that spark to die. Especially early on when there is no emotional investment and they are talking to a new crop of men everyday online. I believe that meaningful texts done in moderation can be excellent...

Lol that would be my luck..

She's beautiful, smart, successful. Yeah prude but so many great qualities devoid in most women today. I've been out with so many run of the mill sloots over the years, slayed on POF and Tinder, had my fun with women, but so far this girl is the proverbial diamond in the rough that I don't want...

I think she would be a phenomenal catch if she's obtainable. I also realize part of my infatuation over this is probably because she's putting herself out there for me but staying at arms length in the process. The challenge accelerates my desire. When talking about the need to take things slow...

Just an update: Saw her Monday to help with the car. She ended up riding around with me for 2 hrs while I checked out homes for sale. Had a deep conversation that felt like it made us connect even more intimately than ever. She texted heavily Mon night and Tues with "I really enjoyed our time...

Thanks, yeah the two prolonged replies weren't a great sign, she doesn't reach out as much as she used to, but I've also pulled back, so who knows what she's thinking. I'm used to being chased so this is a different experience, guess I'll keep the line of communication open and gently pursue and...

Relationship. Maybe she'll deflower once well into the relationship.

That was my thinking as well but I've never really courted a girl like this, so your best advice would be appreciated of these situations would be appreciated.

Yes. On our date last weekend I asked if she had ever kissed a guy. I could tell she didn't really want to answer but I think she shook her head no then changed the subject. And just another example of how she operates. This was probably 3 weeks ago or so, I went the entire weekend and didn't...

While that's another thought in my head. She told me she hasn't dated much. She was asking how dating works these days. She hasn't really been sexual with men, if at all. Claimed no sex until marriage. Strict parents sent her to all girls school. Very bubbly personality but I can tell she...

Alright thanks for helping me cope. Guess it's a weak moment because I swear I haven't been hung up over a girl like this for years. Normally I wouldn't think twice but damn It's just so hard to find a quality girl and right away it felt like we just had this deep connection. Instant comfort and...

I know you guys are basically right, hell this thread basically just reaffirms what I already knew, but after dating countless chics over the years, this one just stood out as a real catch for me. A core value, common interest and chemistry dream come true. So I'm willing to beat myself up a...

Well I ended up texting her, asked her out Saturday night. I had to just so I could put everything to rest if she was going to ghost me :rofl: She responded right away saying "I'm so sorry but I'm launching a remodel and am going to be a slave to work for a while". Obviously seems highly...

Photos 2 and 3 are definitely your weakest link. Your profile is only as good as your worst picture. I've literally had one picture be the difference between getting flooded with messages and nothing at all. guru1000 was pretty spot on but I'll just add a few things. Dressing UP inflates your...

Man no offense but that is just textbook low interest. Good learning experience for you though. In the future keep those texts short and to the point. Playful and fun. The more it looks like you expect a reply, the less likely she will reply. Never ask more than one question per text. No...

Like Soloman said, just throws you off when their behavior is not congruent. When I dropped her at her car Saturday, she got in and gave me sad face with a long wave goodbye. Thought for sure I had her in the bag. Just tons of little signs of interest like that. I'll text her tomorrow and ask...

So another crazy update Reached back out. Seemed excited to hear from me and eager to meet again like nothing happened. So we went out Saturday night, had a really good time like the first two dates, her interest level seemed high as ever, again tells me how comfortable she feels with me, acts...