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Emotional subject.
The problem is; it isn't the easiest and obvious answer that we should be wary of.
We should be wary of the answer that no one likes to talk about, think about or admit.
The easy answer is: Oh, she cheated because he wasn't performing well in the bedroom.
or..
She cheated because he wasn't attentive to her or her feelings.
That is the easy/obvious answer.
The other side to that is: She cheated because she simply wanted to experience another d!ck.
That is the answer we should be worried about.
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Listen, in the beginning of my marriage, my wife treated me like a king.
I was a good boy, at first.
But after a while, no matter how good she was to me (and she was good), no matter how good the sex was (puzzy was the BOMB)..
Despite all of that, I still yearned for new puzzy.
It was the classic "it wasn't her, it was me" thing.
Now, the sad part about it is; some women feel the same way, on the flipside.
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I said all that to say this, we are living in probably the most unfaithful time in American history.
Cheating is the new norm.
Side dudes are winning.
Lies have more virtue than the truth.
Gaslighting is a cheat code (Google "Gaslighting").
And marriage/relationships aren't valued as much as it once was.
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If you get married, and then magically all of the women at work are suddenly trying to holla at you..how long do you think you will last?
Like death & taxes..no matter how long you run or try to hide; sooner or later it is going to get you.
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If a woman is married and loves her husband dearly, but after 10+ years of marriage no matter how good the marriage is, things will get stale..not even including sex.
Her mind will begin to drift, and pretty soon she will accept that "let's go grab a cup of coffee" offer from that guy at work.
And then it is only matter of time.
And then, it happens.
And when it first happens, she will feel guilty and shameful.
But after a while, less and less guilt.. because guilty or not, she can't deny it was a good time.
The angel will tell her..
Angel: That was wrong, and you should be ashamed of yourself.
But the demon will say..
Demon: Yeah, but it was undeniably a good time, wasn't it?
Pretty soon, the demon will prevail.
Then it will continue..
She goes home, and acts normal in front of the husband, and he doesn't suspect a thing.
This kind of shiit can go on for years.
I am about 80% from advising against monogamy and certainly marriage.
Now is not the time for it..and maybe not ever again.