Recent content by wakingup

I've been soaking up a lot from this website and I want to thank everyone for their contributions. I've been divorced for almost one year now, and been having so much more success with women, both romantically and platonically. I credit this to acknowledging the inherent and natural biological...

Wierd, how do you know she's never given a *******?

Don't think about a relationship until maybe 10 dates over the course of 4 months. Then, let them bring it up. You broke both these rules that most on this website will endorse. You are thinking about a relationship after 2 dates and you are thinking of being the initiator and telling her your...

This article reports that men are wanting marriage less, and women more as a result of feminism. https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/young-men-giving-up-on-marriage-women-arent-women-anymore

I think telling her sooner than later would make you look best. 3 weeks is coming up quick. As far as where to let her know, yeah, post coitus sounds pretty good.

Are you in a committed relationship? If not, I'd just say that you'd like to pick back up where things left off in a couple months and you kind of have to "let go". If you are in a committed relationship (meaning, you've specifically stated in conversation that you are exclusive/bf/gf...

Thanks Des. I see your points. It's so wierd because her boyfriend is so lame. Everyone avoids him when he walks up to groups because he just talks about video games and sports and no one else cares. He has a stutter and is not good looking. He is the only one laughing at his own lame jokes. He...

Anecdote time... Some of you may recall the woman I began playing music with who had a boyfriend, how she hit on me and I'd deflect, until eventually, she started crying saying that her boyfriend threatened her with a knife, cops called, and she was scared for her life. She had talked negatively...

This guy seems to be a bit of a troll, he'll ask for advice, then have some made up elaborate story how he did the opposite of what was advised and how awesome his life is. It's really strange. I'd not give him any more attention on this forum.

So the timestamps are interesting on your posts. At 230 PM you are saying that you can't find her on facebook, you're desperate to get her number, but then at 309PM, 39 minutes later, she replies to a text from you? You skipped how you got her number. What happened?

I completely agree with you, if your woman never respects you, there's no use in setting boundaries. Most people on here would say to dump her if she doesn't respect you. When there is no respect there is no boundary or relationship. I think the point you're missing is that the other people on...

Question for you, you live your whole life as an AFC then you die OR you live your whole life as a DJ then you die, in the end, did it really matter? of course it did.

I guess my concern is that I don't want to sound all demanding like, so you wanna be my girl, no talking to ex's, no going out with your friends, no associating with single guys, etc. etc. It just sounds insecure and not me. Further, I want to go out with my friends so it would seem hypocritical...

I know what you mean, I am going to follow up tonight with more specifics with her. I am totally fine not dating other people, I haven't been for a couple months now just on my own accord. I am not the kind of guy who is constantly hitting on women and looking for strictly physical...

Thanks sodbuster, we talked last night, I asked her what exclusive meant, she said "I am not wanting to date other people, are you?" I said that I can agree to that, that I'm not dating anyone else, then a long pause. I asked "was that it?" she responds "should there be more?" I said no and then...