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A girl I'm really interested in is acting strange. When we first met she gave me every possible sign of interest, without exception, especially when she was drunk ie. screaming with excitement when she saw me. Then after about 2 months of occasionally seeing each other, her behaviour changes...

I think women do give signals, or indicators of interest as they are known here. The question that drives me mad is whether or not the girl acts like this normally or is genuinely interested. Also, interest manifests differently in different girls which can be very confusing.

I get rejected about 70% of the time, but it really just depends where you go. Someplaces where the girls are really stuck up, I don't manage to get with any, but if it's a friendly atmosphere I can get with girls way out my league. It's just a matter of persistence and luck. As a rule I don't...

I was scrolling through all the posts here today and it occured to me that in time all of this knowledge is probably going to become widely known. In fact it amazes me that most AFC guys have never googled this sort of information out. I am under the impression that most guys hold incorrect...

Sounds like a good plan but it is difficult because I rarely or never get IOI in clubs. My only succuess last night came from my own initiations. I was mainly curious as to whether other guys experience the same hostility from women in clubs as I seem to.

Last night I went out sarging in an attempt to alleviate my oneitis. Now before you start, this thread isn't gonna be a moan, all considered the night wasn't too bad. I do however have some discussion points. My mindset going in was to not take anything too seriously and to not care about...

She has been in relationships, and I'm not making my interest known yet as she's involved with someone, I'm trying to focus on other girls i.e. her friend. but the looks she gives me, I might be imagining it, what exactly is dear in headlights, is it wide eyed with a blank expression?

I think she's comfortable around me, she asks me to walk to our campus together and she was raving about me to her friend (who later kissed me). when she's talking directly to me she will look. She gives EC to other guys that I know she doesn't like, but outside conversation she only gives me...

A few questions about eye contact. There's this girl I like who seems to like me, we talk alot and she smiles etc. however she gives me very little eye contact, the only exception is when she's drunk, when she's drunk I get lots of EC, hugs, she dances with me and talks to me more than usual...

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Thanks again, that makes perfect sense. I think it was a case of style over substance, what with all this talk of C+F and neg hits you can sometimes forget to maintain an intelligent conversation. Any topics that you recommend me bringing up?

thanks for the tip, but could you elaborate more on charm, as compared to ****y funny.

Hi, recovering AFC here. To put this in context, I barely know this girl and most of the conversation consisted of C+F and some neg hits. I really have no idea what her interest level is and I think I overdid the C+F, she initiated alot of conversation after I kept leaving her waiting, most of...

hi Chipleader, no advice from me sorry just some questions. I'm 18 and I'm going to Spain soon, Alicante to be specific and I'm wondering if you've got any general advice. Stuff to avoid? Best places to go? where will english speaking people be, etc. by the way, getting two girls interested...