Recent content by Snakeinthegrass

WTF....I ignored her because everyone here said to do that....

It's been 1 month now and neither one of us has said a word...and she has disappeared from the gym I work at for a couple of weeks...hmmm??? I'm close to calling her, and just seeing whats up and how she's been....should I? Or wait longer?

I'm movin' on...so just scratch her off forever...??? C'mon, I know we both have some issues, but DAMN...no relationship is perect, and neither are people...sometime if the time is right I want to be ready, IF she is wanting to have fun again with me I want to be ready...how long is to...

It's a game plan, and a question.....how long? 3 months about right?

Met a great girl/**** buddy....she was moving things at a break neck pace....I always stayed cool...and tried to apply the principles of this board ....after four months or so of me wearing down and a few mistakes...I revealed my feelings to early and she seemed to have flaked/predictibly and...

Game plan is to stay cool. Don't act desperate, but don't give up completely, either. I feel that I command respect by not contacting her for a while, but at the same time I've determined to come back with a renewed effort as just a kewl guy who had the guts to let it/her go after a...

The one thing I've learned from this forum is that women...love to use the confusion tactic when dumping a guy, because it keeps them in the ****ing dark! Particularly women with dark waters lurking beneath...they use it to usurp a man's power.... and make him look like a CHUMP!....Guessing, and...

Man...she didn't show up at the gym again tonight...WTF? It's just weird...hahaha I think she is trying to use tactics on me here...hahaha I'm lonely as **** tonight, but reilient and strong nonetheless. I still have to wonder if she is staying away from the gym...cuz when she sees me it...

Thanks Jariel....REALLY appreciate the help...this forum is so damn cool and I'm glad I got some new friends with practical, REAL advice...I will not initiate contact in anyway whatsoever, until she does .......this situation is a little weird for me cuz I wish she would just ****in' disappear...

She came back tonight at was workin out tonight...anyway...as I turned the corner ....she was walkin' towards me and engaged in eye contact...a little prolonged.....I just grinned and kept goin'...but my attitude has been very stoic around her......so this is getting fun anway...hahah..but I...

Synik...I appreciate it man. I really do. I got 3 new girls numbers in 3 days. So me and some friends are gonna go out and kick it later this week....

Yeah...I guess I've lost it...what really sucks is that I know I played it very cool for the first couple of months....and then she was like putty in my fingers..., but the minute I put her higher on the pedestal she was gone.....I was killed with comfort...(making me dinner, telling me how...

It's just weird that she mysteriously vanished from the gym....maybe she's the one playing the game...I hope she just can't come in there because it's so tough for her to see me....????

The weird thing is that she hasn't come back to the gym at all this week...except for Monday....that is not like her...hmmmmmmm....maybe I affected her after all.....maybe it's too tough for her to see me .....I would think if she didn't give a **** she would be there working out like she used...

OK... Pathetically, I still think about her, but I'm getting better The last time I emailed her was 1 week ago now....I haven't initiated any contact with her whatsoever... but I work at a health club....and that is where she works out at... she came in ...with her friend and worked out....I...