Recent content by SanDog11

You can't spot train and lose fat just in your belly. Losing fat is like ice cream melting, it happens slowly and everywhere. But to lose fat you need to have a calorie deficit and burn more than you consume.

Well you've "been talking" for a few months now. does that mean no sex? She got bored that's a long time to be just talking, I'm surprised it went that long.

I know I need to work on myself because of it! However, it's my personality and it's sooo hard to change. My problem is that if I feel not respected, played with, or insulted in any way I get furious, which means I need to work on my self esteem. I cannot help but calling a girl out on her ****...

I was just curious what everyone's mind set is like while dating, whether it be going into the first date, or managing the expectations of what will come next after a good few dates and sex. I guess I ask because at 37, a failed marriage, two other live-in relationships that lasted 3.5 years...

Thanks goodness...bye. I'm home sick during New Year and she called at 1:45 and I didn't pick up. This girl has been playing games with me and if you want to look back at my last couple posts it will explain. What does this text mean and should I even respond to it? I think it's her attempt to...

Damn dude this text is spot on. This one girl who I slept with twice got pissed at me two weeks ago and said I was too aggressive and that she wanted to be left alone! She said, "remember that next time you like a girl"....then two weeks later she sees me and I'm in her bed. I never even text...

I will. I've left her alone. Met would appreciate some more insight.

Bump. I need some feedback on what game this girl is playing. How can I be too.aggressive win we.smashed the first two times we met? Meanwhile she has other guys she's been talking on the phone too for months before they date.. Is she simply protecting herself against me? We have attraction, we...

So I went the party by myself because the girl I was gona take, who had to work, couldn't give me a concrete window so I told her forget about it maybe another night. So I went by myself. The girl there who I had taken home for great sex two times just 30 days before could not stop looking at...

I guess I'm just stuck in the mindset of this girl knew I was going to go until she told me she already set up this date with the other guy who flaked on her, so if I don't go I think it will make me look butt hurt and weak. If I simply show up for an hour or so with someone else it shows I have...

So last night I was at one of my local pubs and there is a girl there I have been slowly working on the past month and I ended up getting her number and "securing" a date for Saturday night at my boys party. She does have to work that evening so she says we can go from like 7 to 8:30 and it...

I realize I contracicted myself. I said it doesn't bother me that I'm not her first choice, and then I close it by saying it's really bothering me. Well, yea I'm pretty pissed off today lol

I'm okay with not being her first choice, and I guess that if I did have someone else I was interested in I would not care at all. I just feel as if I don't go now it makes me look like a chump and it tells her that she hurt me and I didn't come see my boy because of it...smh. For some reason...

What if I showed up fashionable late to the party with another date? Would this be a better option than allowing her to think that I'm not there because i'm bothered that she's there with this other guy?

We had great sex for two nights. I'm in my 30's sorry I wouldn't be saying anything for making out