Recent content by Reckoning

Either make her into a plate or next her, she's not girlfriend material and never will be.

I think you can now. I've had so many weird situations that came from girls meeting me at a time when they weren't happy with their current relationship, it's an unwilling specialty of mine.

Tell her you don't wanna stay in touch while she has a bf, when she breaks up she will probably come running to you if she's that interested. To avoid being the rebound guy, give her space and don't bring up the subject of a relationship with her before she does. Back off immediately if you...

If she's the only reason you're gonna move out, it just shows how much power she has over you. Man the fvck up.

You're head over heels, and she's barely interested. It's not a big deal for her to talk to you occasionally, but every time she does you lose your mind. Give her minimal attention (as in, you are acquaintances and that's it) and try to get some other pretty thing in your vicinity, if she...

From what I see anything further with this girl would be flogging a dead horse, since you didn't make all the right moves last time around. If you really care, you could pull some stunt like a really fun and original date and make her work for your time from there, make her initiate contact...

Well if I get rich before I have kids, I'm never having kids. I get this feeling that life gets dull unless you have money to pursue all your dreams and hobbies. You feel something is missing so you get a wife and have kids, and sure you're miserable with them, but it's something to do with...

I understand what you're talking about. To tell you the truth, she's the one that failed to put up an effort to actually let me get to know her, so we can actually get close and I can invest myself in a relationship. Yeah I definitely overdid it with the entertaining her part, though when I...

Thought I'd let you know, the definite conclusion to this adventure is: she hooked up with another guy actually, I found out today, holding hands and ****. It probably barely means anything to her, she's definitely going for quantity over quality in her life right now. She's not easy when it...

This is way too little info. Invite her again in like a week, if she flakes again next her just in case, if she's interested in any way she will call you when she can and you can decide what to do then.

Stop watching porn and masturbating, no exceptions until your sexual instinct kicks back in. When it does, do it only when you get blue balls or something.

No man, I wanna fvck her, if it's a relationship she needs before that happens, I've got no issues to make it a long distance one and then do whatever I want over there while she's doing her low contact thing, it's pretty much perfect.

Yeah I feel you, but the problem is, when we hook up drunk, I get more talkative, and I don't just talk random unfun bull****, I tell her the most interesting stories about me I can come up with, and she laughs and laughs and comments on them, but barely comes up with something similar. I can't...

I'm getting mixed responses from you and mixed signals from her. I know its hard to judge by what I can write to you guys from here, but the general future situation is this: We will hardly see each other when I leave this town in a week or two, until September when I can -maybe- come back...

You obviously don't know what you're talking about when it comes to vasectomy. The whole point of kids is to make your own, as a legacy and as a way to carry on your genes like your ancestors did for god knows how many cycles to get to the birthing of your ass. A vasectomy is for when you've...