Recent content by PowerAbuse

So much awesome advice, I really appreciate all your responses. I've got to make some changes. Hopefully I haven't already messed up the relationship beyond saving, but it's clear that her not wanting to impress me as much was just a symptom of a larger underlying issue.

Yeah true, I agree, I mean I feel like she can exude sex appeal regardless of what she wears. Before I posted my question here, I questioned my own thoughts/desires quite a bit. The oddest thing is... when I catch myself looking at a woman that appears to be 'sexy' in public. What I've...

Damn, I'm really glad I posted here, I was hesitating to before, but you're 100% right. To be honest, that's my fear, that at some point she would just stop trying because she got me already. Funny thing is, something she's said a lot lately over the past few months as she gradually started to...

Hey thanks good idea, never thought of really specifically complimenting her that way and building it up. To be honest I think rarely compliment her at all, or maybe I've said I like how she wears that stuff before we start having sex, but never say much in the moment at all. One thing I have...

Yeah my only fear with that is that if I keep accepting it, what happens another year down the road, she's going to be turning into one of those muslims who covers their entire body when they go out, for all I know (not trying to be political here just as an example). Though yeah I can tolerate...

I’ve been in a LTR for about a year now. My girlfriend is madly in love, and I’m starting to catch some feelings too. She’s about 12 years younger than me (I’m 34 and she’s 22). We met at work, initially becoming friends. We eventually hooked up about a month after we first met, after a...

If you're cool with her picking up dudes to bang when you're not around, then yeah go for it. But if you've told her you guys are exclusive, then I would question your LTR or why you're wasting her time, or why you haven't just been straight up at the start. It's really tough deciding on an...

(edited for privacy... I think question was silly anyway)

Apparently no one has asked this, but it's a super simple question that will reveal a lot about your relationship. OP: Have you fvcked her brains out yet? If no, then how is she your girlfriend... quit being a sissy and do it already. Personally I don't understand how you can be shy and...

No sh!t, she's 100% right. You can't "love" her just because you fantasized about some imaginary relationship. Love comes from trust and intimate caring, and it has to be mutual, not one-sided. Also, you totally blew your chance. When you first kissed her you should have continued to be...

Exactly this.

Why do you want to drop these women after 1-2 years? Is there some formula, or do you anticipate certain problems happening at that point that would make you assume the FWB relationship would cease? The only thing I can think of is they develop feelings. But if not, why drop them? And you...

So... my GF likes to dress a bit edgy. She generally dresses a bit too sexy for the occasion, like wearing a skirt with knee-high leather boots, or really tight jeans and midriff-bearing shirts. She's a 34B, so she doesn't show the 'crease' or bulging cleavage, but instead she wears...

Teasing is a sign of comfort. If a girl can be comfortable enough to bust your balls, it's like flirting, a sign of trust.

1400, seriously? Are you like Brad Pitt or something?