Recent content by Ottocinclus

I kissed closed on the last two dates I've been on (one I did way more than kiss close LOL) and I never heard from them again. They never responded to my texts later.

That's the plan, but she just confuses me. Maybe I'm just wasting my time here, but I'll go for it and just forget about her if there is any more weirdness.

UPDATE: I pretty much forgot about her, but I guess "she's back." She paddled up to me and started talking out of the blue like she kinda knew me already. I had never actually spoken to her before. The next day I see her waxing her board in the parking lot as I was walking by. She just...

This girl in my circle is always complaining about not getting any sex lately. Won't go into specifics, but she even seemed to be dropping hints about how she'd like to be with somebody who's like me. I jumped on this and texted her to hang out. She responds with, "I'll be your wingman if...

Yeah, I'm just playing it cool for now but will jump at the first opportunity to talk to her. Even if there's nothing there, I can always use more surfer buddies.

Her age is only my estimate. She could be older, and I'm pretty sure she thinks (like everybody else I've talked to at the beach) that I'm much younger. She talks to the other (much) older dudes at the beach anyway. She's super chatty with others in general.

I forgot to mention that during the first encounter she actually started to walk toward me but then suddenly stopped, like she was "reeling" herself back in.

I doubt I give off "Daddy" vibes yet. 20- and 30-somethings are like 90% of what's showing interest when I go out. I still get asked for ID sometimes when I buy alcohol. I'm leaning more toward the has-a-boyfriend-already theory. I guess I'll find out sooner or later.

Yeah, I've been trying to chat more people up. I'm coming out of a "hibernation" phase. I pretty much didn't socialize (except through work and surfing) all through the Pandemic, and now I'm trying to get back out there.

I know I'm too old for these "games," but her behavior is so strange that I just want to get an idea of what's going on. She seems somewhere between mid 20s to mid 30s. One thing about me: I look *really* young for my age for some reason, like about 15-20 years younger. I'm not exaggerating...

Just joined this Forum after deciding to work on social skills and "game" for 2024. And wouldn't you know it: right when I get into this stuff an interesting situation pops up. I probably shouldn't be wasting time (over)analyzing "chick behavior," but I'd like your guys' take on this. I'm a...