Recent content by joker79

If the medium is the message (as rollo pointed out), the new whatsapp feature that tells you if chicks are ignoring you on purpose can make the difference and save us a lot of chasing time. You will know immediately if she's playing games. great isn't it?

my guess is that she's aware that she's disrespecting you, she know that such behaviour will push you away but at that point it's not a big deal for her, she is not that attracted to you. I can't believe that girls do not know that they're risking to upset you and lose you ... unless you picked...

guys I guess it's a situation you've been in at least once in your life. She flirts with other guys (alpha or beta) in front of you during a party, dinner, whatever. She seems not to bother if this annoys you or if it is disrespectful. Sometimes it seems that she doesn't care or doesn't get it...

As we all know, being a rebound is really annoying due to the inconsistency/mixed messages of the female. Lot of effort must be put to get maybe some results - am not talking about ONS. the female I'm talking about has had at least a 2 years relationship with highs and lows and maybe the ex is...

yes, it is. but I'm tempted to smash the pedestal she wants to be on with some ****y/douchebag comeback

guys I need a good comeback for this attention ***** that wants to be pedestalised. Never asked for a chance. Any good ideas?

@Longshot: what's the point of your response? What would he get out of it?

it's (was) taking space up in my mind because, as human beings, we all like to be sure about our choices asking for advice sometimes. That is the purpose of this forum by the way. If you had read the title of the thread, you would have understood it. You know?

@_sideways: of course I'll let it go. But I cannot tolerate such behaviour. it's not attachment or detachment.

I won't do anything, she massively disrespected me and her behaviour disqualifies her. I would give her a chance if I wanted a FB but this is not the case. @Lion 1985: Corey's approach is too relaxed and in my opinion you will never be in a position of power with this approach.

She was in between jobs and hyper-excited for the new one. It's not a justification, you can answer to a text in less than 30 sec and, definitely, in less than 2 weeks. Next.

and here we go, after 2 weeks of complete silence, a text out of the blue "how's going?". Not planning to reply.

So what do you suggest IF she gets in touch with me?

Agree. And even if I asked where she went that night (and I'm not going to do it), she could always say she went home, I can't check in any case.

I expect something in 3-4 days like "Hey how are you?" or similar, neutral questions. If I don't answer it looks like I'm upset though. But if it happens I'll adopt your strategy Mauser96. She was always asking when we would catch up so she know how to do it... if she wants. If nothing happens...