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    red flag when a women wants to change your style?

    turtle from entourage? i dont think you are clear on anything im mentioning here. heres an actual outfit of mine, 1966 vintage madris, nudie slimjims, and jano's http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1372/4720620235_be0b360459_b.jpg where as, she wants to dress me like im walking out of a...
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    red flag when a women wants to change your style?

    ive never dealt with this in the past with other women, so id like advice from others. my girlfriend of a few months, has been suggesting she buy me items of clothing to "upgrade" my style. i have a more youthful style, streetwear, a 5 panel cap, huf tee, and dry denim,and janoskis. its who...
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    how to maintain plates while in a commited relationship

    i went back to to setup a meetup in person with this girl just to be open and give her the low down like many of you suggested. however now she is in auto-reject mode i ignored her advances one too many times which it turns out destroyed my chances i simply got and "oh, hey" response...
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    how to maintain plates while in a commited relationship

    im currently in a commited relationship with a girl i love, and ive established a bond with this girl that i do not want to cheat on her. i set boundaries with her early on and i want to be honorable. in my past relationships, i would just **** random orbiters secretly about once a month and...
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    letting women know you have a thorough understanding of female psycology

    wondering how many of you think this is a good thing to let women know... that is... that you understand things that AFCs dont know. never in the sense that you are bragging about it but that you are able to teach her more about female psychology than she is aware of...does this help or...
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    Being a handy man not as attractive anymore?

    I disagree with this entirely. As long as you show girls how good you are with your hands it's always a plus in value. Just consider how survivable a trait it is to have, very masculine. I've had every woman I've been with compliment my handy skills... Building things and in bed. Any...
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    how do you bring up trust issues with a girl youre dating?

    i found a good window to implement boundaries. she made mention of a reoccurring fantasy of bringing another girl in bed.. so i rewarded her fantasy with some praise. but then she withdrew and she said she didnt like the idea of me ****ing another girl. she then asked "do you want to ****...
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    how do you bring up trust issues with a girl youre dating?

    heres more from last night: you guys are beginning to convince me she has BPD, she does have many of the symptoms. she also never had a father in her life...so sometimes i think she almost craves some abandonment because it feels "normal" to her. shes extremely sexual compared to...
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    how do you bring up trust issues with a girl youre dating?

    ok a lot of you guys are assuming the worst, that im a plate eventhough shes been pinning for a relationship with me for the past few months this morning was another reach on her part to sincerely tell me out of the blue how much i mean to her and that she so greatful to have me in her life...
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    how do you bring up trust issues with a girl youre dating?

    wouldnt say its low interest, we still have great sex multiple times every weekend we spend together. i dominate her in bed and give her things shes new to and other guys are intimidated by....bondage, sadomasochism, squirting orgasms...etc when shes with me, she makes it clear thru her...
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    how do you bring up trust issues with a girl youre dating?

    well she does have reasons why, i just dont believe them example: her: "im going to pick some weeds out back and go to bed early" my reply: "ok text me goodnight later then, ill ttyl" her: "i told you i think im just gonna go to bed early" me: "ok ill talk to you" her: "dont...
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    how do you bring up trust issues with a girl youre dating?

    what is the most alpha way to put your foot down when you feel a girl is doing something on a regular basis behind your back? at this point shes my girlfriend(which she was asking to be for months) so i feel i have the right to not be left in the dark about **** when she makes it pretty clear...
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