Recent content by DJ_Traveler

To Mazeman11, Based on your post I encourage you to proceed with caution. You told her that you were not comfortable with her going out and drinking alone with another guy and she got defensive. I do not like her answer, and I feel that she did not respect you by getting defensive instead...

Based on my experience with women I have to agree that women without a strong father figure in their life is a red flag. Of course, there are exception to this rule but it's important to be careful and proceed with caution. That sounds just like my ex wife Lol:)

I want to begin by first disclaiming that this post is not about bashing women but to talk about our perception of them. 1. How has your perception changed as you slept with more women? 2. As your experience increased, how much more confident do you guys feel about dealing with games and...

To denizenkane, Do the following immediately: 1. Create a support group from your friends, family, and make new friends. 2. Be physically active, go walk, run, rock climbing, lift weight... 3. Make a long list of all things you always wanted to do in your life. Do as many of the items on...

I have a mix feeling about online dating sites. First the bad: The few decent chicks can be hard to get in touch as they are receiving an insane amount of emails from guys. The girls tend to date multiple men which can make them more picky and overconfident for what they really are. Lots of...

I am father of two children and recently divorced and here is my take on your questions: 1) When do you inform a woman you have a kid? I think it really depends on your goal. One night stand, casual dating, or relationship. For one night stand it doesn't really matter, and I am proud of my...

Thanks for all the feedback guys! It really helped me put things in perspective. At this point, I am just going to chill and observe her actions and not her words. If she screws up, it will be her loss. By the way, I am a single dad and my kids are priority number one which is one of the...

I wasn't able to sleep last night as my mind would not stop thinking... Last week, after we slept together she said: You are not going to hurt me? and I said that it's not my intention. After that she said that she had a major crush on me. That's part of the reason I could not make sense why...

Hi guys, I've started dating a girl for about a month now. We have hung out five times total. On the fourth date she came over and we slept together. However, on the 5th date she really confused me. She seemed a bit distant and in thoughts. She said that maybe we have moved too fast with...

Last night, I decided to go to my wife’s school campus to observe her behavior. I studied her campus map, and I positioned myself so that I could see her walk from her first class to her second class which is the class where Josh is. She went from her first class to her second class just on...

The road to being a Don Juan is tough while the road to an AFC is easy. Like you guys said, Josh is just another guy wanting to get into my wife's pants or who knows what. The issue is not Josh but rather my wife lack of respect and myself since I can be my worse enemy. Despite what my...

Sorry guys, I did forgot to mention that. Yes my wife said something like: I can't believe you would even think that I would cheat on you. Of course, she completely dennied cheating. Here is something important to remember: Although I had found out about Josh checking her phone while she...

Once again, I want to say thank you to all of you for taking the time out of your life to read this thread an participate in it. I think that thanks to you all, I was able to deal with this whole thing perhaps more objectively with my wife. Last night, my wife and I had a pretty intense...

Since you guys think I am caving in. How would you guys handle it with the wife? Before last thursday, I have to say that my wife and I have always been close. I felt totally comfortable being around my wife like we are one ( I know this sound corny). Things will never be the same. I...

I agree with you completely. Even in the voicemail my wife had left me that night she was mentioning that we really need to go out clubbing and have fun. I dropped the ball by not being the one to take her out when she felt ready. Josh (prince charming) was right there with his invitation...