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    She says she's looking for only friendship...

    I have no idea what either of you are talking about, but to the OP: I've been where you are, and I'd say forget about this girl. The chances that you turn this around are not good. I mean, if you could have us in your ear telling you what to do each step of the way on your "date" - i think...
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    So i can't get hard (should i cut contact until i fix it?)

    UPDATE: SUCCESS! One of my FBs finally had the guts to come and face this with me today. And i gave it to her good. I also showed her how to properly jerk my penis because she was horrible at it, and even though i was pretty much hard, i needed a few stroked to get me REALLY swoll. Sex lasted...
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    So i can't get hard (should i cut contact until i fix it?)

    UPDATE: This week in a bizarre crazy attempt by me to recapture my sex drive - i bought a ton of supplements from GNC: Dymatize Z-Force (Tribulus + ZMA mixture), DHEA (which i have read doesn't do a thing for your sex drive but WILL fight mild depression), AAKG, and RX Passion (which has not...
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    So i can't get hard (should i cut contact until i fix it?)

    Yeah, so you cut contact and stopped having sex until you fixed your stress? I'm not completely convinced this is ALL stress because i can get hard, and i can perform, it just takes a lot of work.... and im mostly REALLY nervous like a virgin going into it lol.... once i get some head and i...
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    So i can't get hard (should i cut contact until i fix it?)

    I'm trying to avoid that route as i don't want to become dependent on it. But i have considered getting a 4 pack and using it as a confidence boaster. But what happens when the pack runs out??? i imagine i'll be right back to this point because then i'll be like "oh no, my pack is gone. what am...
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    So i can't get hard (should i cut contact until i fix it?)

    Not sure why this was moved???? It's not really about my penis problem, it's more about what to do with the women in the mean time. It's also something a lot of "Mature Men" have to deal with. Yes i can. I can also get hard from head pretty easily. It's just i am getting real nervous when it...
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    So i can't get hard (should i cut contact until i fix it?)

    I'm approaching 30. I was a virgin at 20. But with the help of sites like this and a few ebooks, i was able to learn about frame control, leading, giving great sex, being a high status male, etc. Got me very far with women. In fact - it got me to the point where i have 3 plates that i spin...
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    It's not erectile disfuction i don't think...

    maybe you're just not attracted to her anymore.... try another girl and see i do know that legit erectile dysfunction is often connected to high blood pressure though... might want to get that checked out at some free place.
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    What to say when she says "i miss you"?

    I'm sorry, i was just using a figure of speech when i said i threw my phone across the room lol... i did not actually throw it (it's worth as much as one of my current unemployment checks)... i meant that to demonstrate the frustrating irony that men experience when dealing with women's words...
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    What to say when she says "i miss you"?

    I just had a girl tell this to me last night who i hadn't seen in like 3 months... I basically did what Merit said to do - I told her "why?" and she listed a bunch of things. I hadn't read this thread, i just was in a bad mood yesturday and didn't feel like doing the whole "i miss you" thing...
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    Layed off! Now what? =(

    AAA - thanks for all the advice and encouragement. I will check out some of those other sites. I had forgot about craigslist; the truth is - there's just as many scams on career builder as there is there! But yes, and good luck to you as well! I did plenty of things. Kept inventory on...
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    Layed off! Now what? =(

    I have no wife or child; just a few FBs. My parents live back in Detroit. I'm a good 1000 miles away. But, since i have no reason to be here - i guess that might be viable. But, im not sure i could collect unemployment from a state im not living in??? I've been using career builder with no...
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    Layed off! Now what? =(

    Thank you for the reply! =) I certainly realize i made a grave error. I should have went back to school to have something to fall back on, developed a business or something... I also should have saved a lot more money. I have about enough to get through to the summer time with the...
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    Layed off! Now what? =(

    Really depressed today. We are being laid off at the end of today. My story: I never graduated high school. Got my GED at 17 though. Started working odd jobs here and there... At 21 - i lucked upon one of the greatest jobs a guy without a degree can hope for. It was a mailroom job, which...
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    My battle with a handsome millionaire over her (summarized)

    Bukowski - fair enough. but i post on other forums, and people don't judge people as bad as they do here. i understand people like to be a little tougher here because of the large number of people who "just cannot do it", but i am not one of those people. and i don't appreciate someone assuming...
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