Recent content by Andy_Dufresne

Dude, I'm white and was working over over in China two years ago with my black friend Charlie in his 50s no less. He was like a celebrity every where we went - he had women in Beijing in their 20s literally walk up to him and proposition him on the street, several times no less in the two...

Bump, see above OC, you got it goin on, having the read the string here you just have fear of rejection. Girls size you up amazingly fast, they decide within 5 minutes whether they're going to make out with you or not. So call them on it. Why waste your time and theirs? I would...

Reminds me of an old Seinfeld episode Elaine to Jerry: "Sooo, what would you do if you were a woman?" Jerry to Elaine: "If I were a woman I would be hanging out at the docks waiting for the ships to come in"

Hey Voltage, you were 30 she was 39. Picture you 50 and her 59 (?)That's a big age gap, what did she expect? She's a big girl, she will get over it. Just make sure that you are firm on your decision - going back to dip into the well is generally not a good idea. Couple years ago I was...

Hey secondhalf you have "Match" pegged. Its an adequate service, but try underpinning it with real life pick ups. Some ideas: try Meetup.com; invest in some activities that you really enjoy. I joined when I was on assignment in NC last year, winged with a work buddy to a few events and had...

I don't comment too much on here, but your story and your response is making my blood boil, dude, only because I was in the same boat years ago and I wish I had done it differently. First of all, if she is "not interested" there is either extreme medical issues or she is definitely cheating...

The article was written by a woman, and all the respondents with their excuses disguising low IL were women. It drives home the rule of thumb.....never take relationship advice from a woman.

Agree with the stig Her text is a classic sh^t test, dont take the bait Act like you never got the text, give her a call in 3-5 days and arrange a firm date

It's the past. If it were me I would let it slide as you will just come across as a jealous freak. The main concern is whether she's currently f^cking you on a regular basis and not f^cking anyone else. View it as your own little stock pile of ammo. You can post pictures with you...

Bad news: insalvagable. Good news: Starter marriage. Divorce certainly won't ruin you. You are lucky no kids involved you can walk away and never see her again. Given the situation, drive her insane, get her to leave and have her sign the paper work providing you with most of your assets...

....you're ovethinking this. I'm looking back on some number closes from my recent past: 1. Grocery Stores 2. Wal Mart 3. Staples 4. Work 5. Adult Roller Skating (I'm a pretty good skater) 6. Pig Roast 7. Hiking I'm not a firm believer in facebook as a macking tool, I think a lot...

The answer is simple. Social networking of any kind is a panacea. Go traditional, focus on personal, face to face encounters.

To the OP: Do what you have to do, pay for it, go find an gramma, someone 2x your weight, whatever. Get some action. That should steady your nerves.

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Because attractive women have seen it all, and they know what they want. This woman probably gets 10 different guys hitting on her a day on the web. She had you qualified as a "maybe" from the start; you had an "in", but you did not escalate in time, some other guy beat you to the punch...