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    The Thread Of Going Foreign

    Dude, I'm white and was working over over in China two years ago with my black friend Charlie in his 50s no less. He was like a celebrity every where we went - he had women in Beijing in their 20s literally walk up to him and proposition him on the street, several times no less in the two...
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    21 and never kissed a girl

    Bump, see above OC, you got it goin on, having the read the string here you just have fear of rejection. Girls size you up amazingly fast, they decide within 5 minutes whether they're going to make out with you or not. So call them on it. Why waste your time and theirs? I would...
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    Working Example of the Advantage Women Have

    Reminds me of an old Seinfeld episode Elaine to Jerry: "Sooo, what would you do if you were a woman?" Jerry to Elaine: "If I were a woman I would be hanging out at the docks waiting for the ships to come in"
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    Don't Let Game Become A Weapon

    Hey Voltage, you were 30 she was 39. Picture you 50 and her 59 (?)That's a big age gap, what did she expect? She's a big girl, she will get over it. Just make sure that you are firm on your decision - going back to dip into the well is generally not a good idea. Couple years ago I was...
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    match.com & pof stunting your growth?

    Hey secondhalf you have "Match" pegged. Its an adequate service, but try underpinning it with real life pick ups. Some ideas: try Meetup.com; invest in some activities that you really enjoy. I joined when I was on assignment in NC last year, winged with a work buddy to a few events and had...
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    So I have a wife and kids...

    I don't comment too much on here, but your story and your response is making my blood boil, dude, only because I was in the same boat years ago and I wish I had done it differently. First of all, if she is "not interested" there is either extreme medical issues or she is definitely cheating...
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    article: Confessions: 7 reasons why women cheat

    The article was written by a woman, and all the respondents with their excuses disguising low IL were women. It drives home the rule of thumb.....never take relationship advice from a woman.
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    I need a quick comeback for a 9.5

    Agree with the stig Her text is a classic sh^t test, dont take the bait Act like you never got the text, give her a call in 3-5 days and arrange a firm date
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    Pictures Of Ex's on Facebook

    It's the past. If it were me I would let it slide as you will just come across as a jealous freak. The main concern is whether she's currently f^cking you on a regular basis and not f^cking anyone else. View it as your own little stock pile of ammo. You can post pictures with you...
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    Wife screws our only vacation in years with cheating

    Bad news: insalvagable. Good news: Starter marriage. Divorce certainly won't ruin you. You are lucky no kids involved you can walk away and never see her again. Given the situation, drive her insane, get her to leave and have her sign the paper work providing you with most of your assets...
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    Technology has turned men into Wussies

    ....you're ovethinking this. I'm looking back on some number closes from my recent past: 1. Grocery Stores 2. Wal Mart 3. Staples 4. Work 5. Adult Roller Skating (I'm a pretty good skater) 6. Pig Roast 7. Hiking I'm not a firm believer in facebook as a macking tool, I think a lot...
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    Technology has turned men into Wussies

    The answer is simple. Social networking of any kind is a panacea. Go traditional, focus on personal, face to face encounters.
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    Why are women such f**king *****es

    To the OP: Do what you have to do, pay for it, go find an gramma, someone 2x your weight, whatever. Get some action. That should steady your nerves.
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    How Do You Message the HB9+ that's on Online Dating Sites?

    Because attractive women have seen it all, and they know what they want. This woman probably gets 10 different guys hitting on her a day on the web. She had you qualified as a "maybe" from the start; you had an "in", but you did not escalate in time, some other guy beat you to the punch...
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    How Do You Message the HB9+ that's on Online Dating Sites?

    By my judgement the mistake you made was right here. Under ANY circustance early in the dating process you don't EVER want to tell her "what she wants to hear". Next time do the exact opposite. The goal is surprise. Keep catching her off guard. And ignore the lawyer nonsense, every woman...
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    Dating women wealthier than you

    In the past I've had relationships with a couple of women who were in the "old money" category; they seemed to be numb to the drama because they had experienced it their whole lives. For instance, one had a brother who had been married six times. When I heard this, my response was, "That's...
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    Is Texting / Facebook Killing Cold Approach Game?

    I'm validated by my 19 year old son here: He joined mySpace at 13 and realized how sophomoric these social networking sites are. He saw facebook coming and decided to opt out. His reason "I don't want people to know what the hell I'm up to, and spending time on there is counterproductive."...
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    Question for History Buffs, World War II.

    Another book I read years ago "Russia at War" decribed that on the morning of the June 1941 invasion, German soldiers who were tasked to secure the rail lines recalled tanker trains of Russian oil headed into occupied Poland. It was also fact that the US sent a huge percentage of its scrap...
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    i fail at clubbing.

    I completely disagree, unless the OP emulates one of the Packers in his surname. Especially when you are young, clubbing is ridiculously hierarchial. The tallest, most ripped, most connected, best dressed men get all the attention and 90% of all the other men end up going home to beat off at...
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